{"id":5344,"date":"2022-09-02T07:00:04","date_gmt":"2022-09-02T03:00:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hiepsidoan.net\/?p=5344"},"modified":"2022-09-02T07:00:04","modified_gmt":"2022-09-02T03:00:04","slug":"hanh-phuc-se-khong-mim-cuoi-neu-ban-la-nguoi-co-bieu-hien-nay","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hiepsidoan.net\/index.php\/2022\/09\/02\/hanh-phuc-se-khong-mim-cuoi-neu-ban-la-nguoi-co-bieu-hien-nay\/","title":{"rendered":"H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n n\u00e0y!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Chia s\u1ebb th\u00e1ng 9- 2022 – V\u0103n C\u00f4ng \u0110\u1ea1o\"\"<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n n\u00e0y! Dr. Allen Hunt<\/span><\/span><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n mong mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u2013 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u sau \u0111\u00e2y.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00ecnh c\u1edd. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1eafm b\u1eaft v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng di\u1ec5n ra xung quanh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u2018th\u1ea3m h\u1ecda\u2019 trong m\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau; B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng mong mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u2013 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u sau \u0111\u00e2y:<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

1. \u0110\u1ec3 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn chen ch\u00e2n v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a hai b\u1ea1n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e3 qua. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 ch\u1ecbu nhi\u1ec1u t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn, th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i\u2026 \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ni\u1ec1m \u0111au m\u00e0 ai c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u00f4n gi\u1ea5u. V\u00ec th\u1ebf n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1eebng mang qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 \u2018nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf\u2019 n\u1eeda kia. \u0110\u1eebng quan tr\u1ecdng chuy\u1ec7n trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 l\u00e0 g\u00ec v\u00ec r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00ednh \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa hai b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y l\u00e0m cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a hai b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap vun \u0111\u1eafp cho m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a hai b\u1ea1n ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

2. Cho r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n thi\u1ebfu r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: \u2018H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n. M\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111ang c\u00f3\u2019.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

H\u00e3y bi\u1ebft tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u00f3 v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c vun \u0111\u1eafp m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a hai b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gian ng\u1ed3i \u0111i\u1ec3m danh nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 h\u1eadm h\u1ef1c v\u00ec n\u00f3. Tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7. B\u1edfi v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 cho th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 n\u1eeda kia v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a hai b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng hay kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0o t\u00ednh ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

3. Nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn gi\u1eefa h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 quen thu\u1ed9c<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n nh\u01b0 thu\u1edf ban \u0111\u1ea7u th\u00ec h\u00e3y tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn gi\u1eefa h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 quen thu\u1ed9c. Nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 m\u00e3n v\u00e0 y\u00ean l\u00f2ng. \u0110\u00f4i khi b\u1ea1n cho r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u1ed5n v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng tranh lu\u1eadn ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a hai b\u1ea1n c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec1u, nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng. Nh\u01b0ng sau \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian, b\u1ea1n ch\u1ee3t nh\u1eadn ra m\u00ecnh \u0111ang l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 theo c\u00e1ch r\u1eadp khu\u00f4n ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1eb1ng ni\u1ec1m vui, s\u1ef1 h\u00e0o h\u1ee9ng. Ch\u00ednh \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd d\u1eabn t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, h\u00e3y s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

4. B\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m cho n\u1eeda kia<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Mahatma Gandhi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: \u2018H\u00e3y s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1ebft ng\u00e0y mai. H\u00e3y h\u1ecdc nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng m\u00e3i m\u00e3i\u2019.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u0169ng v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 hai th\u1ef1c th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1c nhau. V\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u mang d\u1ea5u \u1ea5n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u. \u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n l\u01b0u \u00fd l\u00e0 h\u00e3y l\u00e0m cho m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 nhi\u1ec7t huy\u1ebft v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh cho n\u1eeda kia. \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd ng\u1eebng h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. V\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m d\u00e0y th\u00eam kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap cho chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng b\u1ec1n ch\u1eb7t.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

5. Qu\u00e1 kh\u1eaft khe v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 n\u1eeda kia<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 bi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh nh\u00e0 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Trong nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta t\u1ef1 ch\u00e1n gh\u00e9t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 k\u1ebb y\u1ebfu k\u00e9m. Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n qu\u00e1 kh\u1eaft khe v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 n\u1eeda kia, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn cho m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u1ebfu li\u00ean t\u1ee5c nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 n\u1eeda kia. H\u00e3y bi\u1ebft ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 n\u1eeda kia s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng \u2013 v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. H\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y l\u1eabn nhau b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n vi\u1ec7c ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n, \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

6. B\u1ecf m\u1eb7c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ecf m\u1eb7c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i l\u1edbn! \u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i b\u1ea1n g\u00e2y ra cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i b\u1ea1n g\u00e2y ra v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea1n. M\u1ed9t t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c duy tr\u00ec trong m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh, \u0111\u1ea7y s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng. \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 x\u1eadp x\u1ec7, v\u1ebb b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i l\u00f4i th\u00f4i, nh\u1ebfch nh\u00e1c. D\u00f9 khi \u0111ang y\u00eau, hay khi \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n r\u1ed3i, b\u1ea1n tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean b\u1ecf m\u1eb7c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t trong k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 tin v\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c v\u00f3c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn n\u1eeda kia c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

7. Coi tr\u1ecdng v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t h\u01a1n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Kinh nghi\u1ec7m cho th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00ec th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e2u b\u1ec1n. Khi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ecb r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c b\u1eb1ng c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau h\u1ecd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng toan t\u00ednh v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 mua chu\u1ed9c. H\u01a1n th\u1ebf, c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng khi\u1ebfn cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd th\u1ea5y h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang c\u00f3. V\u00e0 d\u0129 nhi\u00ean t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi coi c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t h\u01a1n m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n mong manh, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fac n\u00e0o.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

8. So s\u00e1nh n\u1eeda kia v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 c\u00e2u danh ng\u00f4n r\u1eb1ng: \u2018H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ch\u1edd s\u1ef1 ph\u00ea duy\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai\u2019.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00e1c nhau. T\u1ef1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 cho t\u1ef1 ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n. Vi\u1ec7c ai \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ebft n\u1eafm l\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t huy s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng l\u00e0m n\u00ean s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n m\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd so s\u00e1nh n\u1eeda kia v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed khi b\u1ea1n so s\u00e1nh b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec v\u00ec b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sau khi so s\u00e1nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1, s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, ch\u00e1n gh\u00e9t nhau.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ho\u00e0ng Thu Th\u1ea3o<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

———————–<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Chia s\u1ebb th\u00e1ng 8 – 2022<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

12 c\u00e2u Kinh th\u00e1nh truy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ni\u1ec1m vui trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u tr\u00edch d\u1eabn t\u1eeb Kinh Th\u00e1nh.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Tu\u1ea7n n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e1nh d\u1ea5u tu\u1ea7n l\u1ec5 Qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng suy g\u1eabm v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 suy t\u01b0 v\u1ec1 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a b\u00ed t\u00edch m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang tr\u1ea3i qua. \u0110\u1ec3 mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u1edf m\u1ecdi l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng, d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ea5y t\u1eeb Kinh Th\u00e1nh.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cT\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ee3 hi\u1ec1n l\u00e0 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u01a1n \u0110\u1ee8C CH\u00daA ban cho\u201d (Cn 18,22)<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u201c\u0110\u1ee9c m\u1ebfn th\u00ec nh\u1eabn nh\u1ee5c, hi\u1ec1n h\u1eadu, kh\u00f4ng ghen t\u01b0\u01a1ng, kh\u00f4ng v\u00eanh vang, kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eafc, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh, kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm t\u01b0 l\u1ee3i, kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn, kh\u00f4ng nu\u00f4i h\u1eadn th\u00f9, kh\u00f4ng m\u1eebng khi th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 gian \u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng vui khi th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt. \u0110\u1ee9c m\u1ebfn tha th\u1ee9 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, tin t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, hy v\u1ecdng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3\u201d (1Cr 13,4-7)<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cThi\u00ean Ch\u00faa ch\u01b0a ai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chi\u00eam ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng bao gi\u1edd. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau, th\u00ec Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u1edf l\u1ea1i trong ch\u00fang ta, v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u01a1i ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi n\u00ean ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o\u201d (1Ga 4,12)<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cC\u0169ng th\u1ebf, ch\u1ed3ng ph\u1ea3i y\u00eau v\u1ee3 nh\u01b0 y\u00eau ch\u00ednh th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh. Y\u00eau v\u1ee3 l\u00e0 y\u00eau ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Qu\u1ea3 v\u1eady, c\u00f3 ai gh\u00e9t th\u00e2n x\u00e1c m\u00ecnh bao gi\u1edd; tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta nu\u00f4i n\u1ea5ng v\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c th\u00e2n x\u00e1c m\u00ecnh, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 \u0110\u1ee9c Ki-t\u00f4 nu\u00f4i n\u1ea5ng v\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh, v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn trong th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d (Ep 5,28-30)<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cNgay t\u1eeb bu\u1ed5i s\u1edbm mai, xin cho con nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ea5y t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa, v\u00ec con v\u1eabn tin c\u1eady n\u01a1i Ng\u00e0i. Xin ch\u1ec9 d\u1ea1y \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ed1i ph\u1ea3i theo, v\u00ec con n\u00e2ng t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n l\u00ean c\u00f9ng Ch\u00faa\u201d (Tv 143,8)<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cC\u1eeda nh\u00e0, t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n l\u00e0 gia nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a cha \u00f4ng, c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 kh\u00f4n ngoan l\u00e0 do \u0110\u1ee8C CH\u00daA\u201d (Cn 19,14)<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m ch\u1ed3ng, h\u00e3y y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ee3, nh\u01b0 ch\u00ednh \u0110\u1ee9c Ki-t\u00f4 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh v\u00e0 hi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh v\u00ec H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh\u201d (Ep 5,25)<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cCh\u00fang ta h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nhau, l\u00e0m sao cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia s\u1ed1ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t\u201d (Dt 10,24)<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cGi\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u01a1n n\u00f3i ti\u00ean tri, v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u00ed nhi\u1ec7m, m\u1ecdi l\u1ebd cao si\u00eau, hay c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ee9c tin \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec3n n\u00fai d\u1eddi non, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9c m\u1ebfn, th\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec\u201d (1Cr 13,2)<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cAnh em \u0111\u1eebng m\u1eafc n\u1ee3 g\u00ec ai, ngo\u00e0i m\u00f3n n\u1ee3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00e2n t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1i; v\u00ec ai y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi, th\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 chu to\u00e0n L\u1ec1 Lu\u1eadt\u201d (Rm 13,8)<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cV\u00ec th\u1ebf, anh em h\u00e3y an \u1ee7i nhau v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng cho nhau, nh\u01b0 anh em v\u1eabn l\u00e0m\u201d (1Tx 5,11)<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cM\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng, c\u00f3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u1eaft s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u n\u1ed5i; d\u00e2y ch\u1eadp ba \u0111\u00e2u d\u1ec5 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ee9t?\u201d (Gv 4,12)<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3: Cerrito Gardiner <\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Chuy\u1ec3n ng\u1eef: G. V\u00f5 T\u00e1 Ho\u00e0ng<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

———-<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Chia s\u1ebb th\u00e1ng 7- 2022<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

GI\u00c1O D\u1ee4C V\u00c0 GIA \u0110\u00ccNH<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 tr\u1ed3ng khoai nu\u00f4i c\u00e1, kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0m l\u00faa nu\u00f4i heo, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 tr\u1ed3ng rau nu\u00f4i g\u00e0. Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian, ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, kinh nghi\u1ec7m, t\u00e2m l\u00fd, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p, nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c. V\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t huy\u1ec1n nhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u. B\u1edfi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecbu \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c, ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh, m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng, th\u1eddi ti\u1ebft, gi\u00e0u ngh\u00e8o, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00f3i v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu l\u00e0 m\u1eabu g\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t. 5 trong v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c Ng\u00e0i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u1ebfu bi\u1ebft quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i th\u00ec s\u1ebd thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c kh\u1edfi \u0111i t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu. Ng\u00e0i n\u00f3i: “Kh\u00f4ng ai th\u1eafp \u0111\u00e8n r\u1ed3i \u0111em \u0111\u1eb7t g\u1ea7m gi\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eb7t tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ebf” (Mc 4,21-25; Lc 8,16-18). Kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111\u1ed1t \u0111\u00e8n r\u1ed3i l\u1ea5y th\u00f9ng \u00fap l\u00ean… Ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe s\u1ebd ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ngay, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt. V\u00e2ng, r\u1ed3i t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2y Ng\u00e0i d\u1eabn ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe \u0111i xa h\u01a1n: \u0111\u1eb7t tr\u00ean cao \u0111\u1ec3 ai \u0111i th\u00ec nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng. R\u1ed3i ti\u1ebfp, v\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec b\u00ed \u1ea9n m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean hi\u1ec3n hi\u1ec7n, ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec che gi\u1ea5u m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0a ra \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng. V\u1eady h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd t\u1edbi c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c anh em nghe. V\u00ec ai \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3, th\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho th\u00eam; c\u00f2n ai kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3, th\u00ec ngay c\u00e1i h\u1ecd t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 c\u00f3, c\u0169ng s\u1ebd b\u1ecb l\u1ea5y m\u1ea5t. Ng\u00e0i d\u1eabn t\u1eeb \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ebfn \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng ch\u00e2n l\u00fd m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i th\u1eafp l\u00ean. V\u00ec th\u1ebf h\u00e3y c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn v\u00e0 ch\u0103m ch\u00fa l\u1eafng nghe.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Gia \u0111\u00ecnh. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec. Ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0: c\u00e2y tr\u1ed3ng, v\u1eadt nu\u00f4i m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y m\u1ed7i th\u00e1ng s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n l\u1edbn l\u00ean, c\u00e0nh l\u00e1 sum xu\u00ea, th\u00e2n x\u00e1c l\u1edbn d\u1ea7n. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng v\u1eady, t\u1eeb 11 tu\u1ed5i tr\u1edf \u0111i, ta s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta cao to, n\u1eb7ng, r\u1ed3i t\u00f3c, r\u00e2u m\u1ecdc nhi\u1ec1u, b\u1eafp ch\u00e2n b\u1eafp tay n\u1ed5i to, gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i th\u00ec \u1ed3m \u1ed3m, to\u00e0n th\u00e2n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n… Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 d\u1eady th\u00ec. M\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y con \u0111ang l\u1edbn nhanh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. Con kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i lo s\u1ee3 m\u00e0 h\u00e3y vui m\u1eebng v\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kho\u1ebb m\u1ea1nh. Con \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec r\u1ed3i.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 v\u1eady qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt r\u1ea5t an t\u00e2m v\u00e0 s\u1ebd qu\u00ean h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng lo \u00e2u s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i nhanh c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n x\u00e1c.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c kh\u1edfi \u0111i t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng d\u01b0 lu\u1eadn<\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu. Ng\u00e0i h\u1ecfi c\u00e1c m\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec7: “Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00f3i Th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 ai?” D\u1ea1, “k\u1ebb th\u00ec n\u00f3i l\u00e0 \u00f4ng Gioan T\u1ea9y Gi\u1ea3, k\u1ebb th\u00ec b\u1ea3o l\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u00calia, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i cho l\u00e0 \u00f4ng Gi\u00ear\u00eamia hay m\u1ed9t trong c\u00e1c v\u1ecb ng\u00f4n s\u1ee9”. Ng\u00e0i l\u1ea1i h\u1ecfi: “Th\u1ebf anh em b\u1ea3o Th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 ai?” Ph\u00ear\u00f4 th\u01b0a: “Th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 \u0110\u1ea5ng Kit\u00f4, Con Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa h\u1eb1ng s\u1ed1ng” (Mt 16,13-16; Lc 9,18-22).\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu h\u1ecfi tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp “Anh em b\u1ea3o Th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 ai?” ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn c\u00e1c T\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3 s\u1ebd b\u1ee1 ng\u1ee1, ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean, ho\u1eb7c v\u00ec t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb m\u00e0 im l\u1eb7ng, hay kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m n\u00f3i h\u1ebft s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt. V\u1edbi c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu, c\u00e1c T\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3 nh\u1eadp cu\u1ed9c t\u1eeb xa, r\u1ed3i l\u00fac \u0111ang h\u00e0o h\u1ee9ng, s\u00f4i n\u1ed5i, Ng\u00e0i m\u1edbi h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c \u00f4ng. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, c\u00e1c \u00f4ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 trung th\u1ef1c.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Ta c\u0169ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng th\u0103m d\u00f2 v\u1ec1 cha m\u1eb9 h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn con c\u00e1i.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5: \u0111i h\u1ecdp ph\u1ee5 huynh h\u1ecdc sinh, m\u1eb9 nghe th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a l\u1edbp, c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean, v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng l\u1edbp trong l\u00e0ng x\u00e3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u1ebf n\u00e0y th\u1ebf n\u00e0y… Th\u1ebf con th\u00ec sao?
\nNg\u01b0\u1eddi con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd ch\u1ed1i, s\u1ebd n\u00f3i kh\u00e1c \u0111i n\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 h\u1ecfi tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp. Nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi con hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft r\u1ed3i, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea5u gi\u1ebfm, ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i quanh n\u1eefa. V\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 con m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c kh\u1edfi \u0111i t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u truy\u1ec7n<\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu. Ng\u00e0i th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi; ho\u1eb7c k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n r\u1ed3i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch gi\u00fap cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u, d\u1ec5 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5: d\u1ee5 ng\u00f4n ng\u01b0\u1eddi gieo gi\u1ed1ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha nh\u00e2n t\u1eeb, con chi\u00ean l\u1ea1c, c\u00e1c th\u1ee3 l\u00e0m v\u01b0\u1eddn nho, nh\u1eefng n\u00e9n b\u1ea1c, l\u1ec5 ph\u1ee5c ng\u00e0y c\u01b0\u1edbi…\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Gia \u0111\u00ecnh. C\u00e2u truy\u1ec7n s\u1ebd gi\u00fap con c\u00e1i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u1eb9 nh\u00f5m. Coi m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1n gi\u1ea3 ng\u1ed3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u00e2n kh\u1ea5u. T\u00e2m h\u1ed3n nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, nh\u1eadp cu\u1ed9c d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. \u00c1p l\u1ef1c d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o t\u1eeb tr\u00ean s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3m nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c t\u1ed1i thi\u1ec3u. V\u00e0 khi gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch, ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch truy\u1ec7n. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 ta nh\u1eafm t\u1edbi khi d\u00f9ng truy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7. Truy\u1ec7n li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n h\u1ecdc l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, khoa h\u1ecdc, t\u00e2m l\u00fd th\u00ec r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. Ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y \u1edf t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed, s\u00e1ch v\u1edf, b\u00e1o \u0111\u00e0i…<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c kh\u1edfi \u0111i t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ti\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n<\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng, lu\u1eadt x\u01b0a d\u1ea1y r\u1eb1ng “ch\u1edb gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u1edb ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, ch\u1edb ly d\u1ecb, \u0111\u1eebng b\u1ed9i th\u1ec1, m\u1eaft \u0111\u1ec1n m\u1eaft, r\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec1n r\u0103ng, h\u00e3y y\u00eau \u0111\u1ed3ng lo\u1ea1i v\u00e0 gh\u00e9t k\u1ebb th\u00f9”. C\u00f2n Th\u1ea7y, Th\u1ea7y b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng: \u0111\u1eebng gi\u1eadn, \u0111\u1eebng m\u1eafng ch\u1eedi, \u0111\u1eebng b\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh v\u1edbi anh em m\u00ecnh. C\u00f2n Th\u1ea7y, Th\u1ea7y b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng: ch\u1edb nh\u00ecn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1i m\u00e0 th\u00e8m mu\u1ed1n, ch\u1edb ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh d\u00f9 l\u00e0 trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f2n Th\u1ea7y, Th\u1ea7y b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng: tr\u1eddi l\u00e0 ngai Ch\u00faa, \u0111\u1ea5t l\u00e0 b\u1ec7 d\u01b0\u1edbi ch\u00e2n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi, Gi\u00earusalem l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Vua cao c\u1ea3. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, \u0111\u1eebng c\u00f3 th\u1ec1. M\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u00ec n\u00f3i c\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng. Th\u00eam \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7t chuy\u1ec7n l\u00e0 do ma qu\u1ef7. C\u00f2n Th\u1ea7y, Th\u1ea7y b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng: \u0111\u1eebng ch\u1ed1ng c\u1ef1 m\u00e0 h\u00e3y chia s\u1ebb. H\u00e3y y\u00eau k\u1ebb th\u00f9 v\u00e0 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e3i m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ta m\u1edbi tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a Cha anh em \u0110\u1ea5ng ng\u1ef1 tr\u00ean tr\u1eddi (Mt 5,21-48).<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4n ngoan \u0111\u1ec3 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn, th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng Ng\u00e0i v\u1eabn nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i uy t\u00edn v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a ti\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n. Ng\u00e0i l\u00e0m th\u1ebf v\u1eeba t\u1ea1o c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u00e2n quen cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe, v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ec3 con ch\u00e1u tr\u00e1nh \u0111i th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn, coi th\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111\u1ea3 ph\u00e1. V\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u00f3, Ng\u00e0i n\u00e2ng c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ec3 cho th\u1ea5y, tuy c\u00e1c v\u1ecb n\u00e0y c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec3m hay, nh\u01b0ng m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i b\u1ed5 sung, ho\u00e0n ch\u1ec9nh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y th\u1ebf n\u00e0y. C\u00f2n Th\u1ea7y, Th\u1ea7y b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng… Ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb t\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi l\u0129nh h\u1ed9i m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 cao h\u01a1n.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Gia \u0111\u00ecnh. V\u1edbi kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con, cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp. Nh\u01b0ng con c\u00e1i, t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0111\u00f4i khi kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n nghe d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o. \u0110\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00ec ch\u00fang ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u00f4n ngoan, l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh r\u1ed3i, l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a v\u0169 tr\u1ee5.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng danh nh\u00e2n n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 con c\u00e1i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00e0 th\u00e1n ph\u1ee5c m\u00e0 kh\u1edfi s\u1ef1 cho n\u1ed9i dung h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i h\u01a1n. B\u1edfi con c\u00e1i bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 ta c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea1t hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean ta ph\u1ea3i g\u00e2y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i. Ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0 t\u1ea1o s\u1ef1 t\u00f2 m\u00f2, th\u1eafc m\u1eafc, t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u00edch nghe, hay \u00edt l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n nghe. Sau c\u00f9ng ta n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c kh\u1edfi \u0111i t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh<\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu. “H\u00f4m nay con \u0111i l\u00e0m v\u01b0\u1eddn nho cho ta” (Mt 21,28-32). Ng\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c ti\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n, nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u truy\u1ec7n, hay d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, ho\u1eb7c t\u1eeb d\u01b0 lu\u1eadn, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u00e1p l\u1ef1c. V\u00ec gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 \u00e1p l\u1ef1c.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ec3u d\u01b0\u01a1ng quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c, nh\u01b0ng v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 trong ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Gia \u0111\u00ecnh. C\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y xem ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u00edch d\u00f9ng. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng nhi\u1ec1u qu\u00e1 th\u00ec b\u1ea7u kh\u00ed gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ebd c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i. Khi\u1ebfn cho con c\u00e1i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 d\u00f9ng quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec3 \u00e1p ch\u1ebf, b\u1eaft ch\u00fang ph\u1ea3i th\u1ebf n\u00e0y th\u1ebf n\u1ecd.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0 con dao, n\u1ebfu d\u00f9ng \u0111\u00fang s\u1ebd ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, n\u1ebfu d\u00f9ng sai s\u1ebd g\u00e2y nguy hi\u1ec3m cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng. Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ki\u1ec3u m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh c\u0169ng v\u1eady. Ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft c\u1ea7n th\u1eadn, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 d\u00f9ng l\u00fac n\u00e0o, tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0o, vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 qu\u00e9t nh\u00e0, r\u1eeda ly, gi\u1eb7t qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o… th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, t\u00ecnh ngh\u0129a… m\u00e0 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y th\u00ec th\u1eadt nguy hi\u1ec3m.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o ch\u1eb3ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng con. Nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m, nghi ng\u1edd, m\u1ea5t l\u00f2ng tin, ho\u1eb7c v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh chung l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng. Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea7y ch\u00f4ng gai, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi cha m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m suy ngh\u0129, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t. V\u00ec:<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 h\u1ed3ng \u00e2n Ch\u00faa ban, n\u00ean cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n t\u1ea1 \u01a1n Ch\u00faa, b\u1edfi Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 cho l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m cha, v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thay Ch\u00faa gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi con Ch\u00faa.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 k\u1ebft tinh c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau cha m\u1eb9, n\u00ean h\u00e3y y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ch\u00fang v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau v\u00e0 hy sinh.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Con c\u00e1i c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c k\u1ef9 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n quan t\u00e2m nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh t\u00ecnh, t\u00e2m t\u01b0 nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng, s\u1edf th\u00edch… \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi, h\u1ee3p t\u00e2m l\u00fd.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Con c\u00e1i c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u sai ph\u1ea1m v\u00e0 l\u1ee1 l\u1ea7m, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 th\u1ee9 tha \u0111\u1ec3 ngay t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf, con c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 bao dung nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, cha m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y v\u00ec s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n vong l\u1edbn lao n\u00e0y m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. \u0110\u1ea7u t\u01b0 v\u1ec1 ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, th\u1eddi gian, t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng, tha th\u1ee9, ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, kinh nghi\u1ec7m, ki\u00ean tr\u00ec, qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i, hy sinh, nh\u1eabn nh\u1ee5c…\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec huy\u1ec1n nhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u, n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd, m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n con c\u00e1i v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi, th\u00ec ta h\u00e3y v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa tr\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n con c\u00e1i k\u00ednh s\u1ee3 v\u00e0 m\u1ebfn y\u00eau, ta h\u00e3y l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf v\u1edbi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

H\u00e3y b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc Th\u00e1nh M\u00f4nica, ch\u00ednh nh\u1edd l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c v\u00e0 m\u1ebfn Ch\u00faa, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 cho c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c kh\u00f4n ngoan gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i. V\u00e0 hoa tr\u00e1i l\u1edbn lao l\u00e0 Th\u00e1nh Augustin\u00f4.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

H\u00e3y c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n th\u1eadt nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh th\u00eam \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 xin \u01a1n k\u00ednh s\u1ee3 Ch\u00faa. \u01a0n kh\u00f4n ngoan d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c, nh\u01b0ng \u01a1n k\u00ednh s\u1ee3 Ch\u00faa m\u1edbi l\u00e0m cho c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c \u1ea5y ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, tr\u1ed5 hoa, k\u1ebft tr\u00e1i.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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Chia s\u1ebb th\u00e1ng 6- 2022<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 tha th\u1ee9 cho nhau trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00ean 9 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y!<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Tha th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Do \u0111\u00f3, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 tha th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea7u xin s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft h\u00e3y tha th\u1ee9 cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u qu\u00e1 hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u1ec5 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, nh\u01b0ng y\u00eau b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gi\u1edbi lu\u1eadt. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tha th\u1ee9. Ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 anh ch\u1ecb em, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng qu\u00ean n\u00f3 khi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau d\u00e0nh cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng hay nghi\u1ec1n ng\u1eabm v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfc nu\u1ed1i v\u00e0 h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn: ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eef l\u1eddi ho\u1eb7c m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y ra h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng. N\u1ebfu qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng trong b\u00ecnh an, s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh c\u00e1ch tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u cho th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i tha th\u1ee9: cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn gi\u1eefa tha th\u1ee9 v\u1edbi qu\u00ean<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh tha th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng, ch\u00f4n v\u00f9i n\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tha th\u1ee9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt. \u0110\u1ec3 tha th\u1ee9, c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m, c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t t\u00ean cho h\u00e0nh vi ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i, cho d\u00f9 ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 th\u1ee7 ph\u1ea1m hay n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng \u201ckhai th\u00e1c\u201d s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Tha th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00f3p ngh\u1eb9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u1ec3 thao t\u00fang, khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00e0nh con n\u1ee3 k\u00e9p: \u201cAnh kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 mang t\u1ed9i x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00f4i m\u00e0 anh c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i c\u00e1m \u01a1n t\u00f4i, b\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u00f4i nh\u00e2n h\u1eadu v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tha th\u1ee9 cho anh\u201d. S\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 gi\u1ea3 t\u1ea1o n\u00e0y \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, n\u00f3 b\u1ecb b\u00f3p m\u00e9o ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u1edfi v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau sai khi\u1ebfn, nh\u01b0ng t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 ki\u00eau ng\u1ea1o hay b\u1edfi \u00e1c t\u00e2m.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

H\u00e3y thanh t\u1ea9y nh\u1eefng \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t tha th\u1ee9 gi\u1ea3 t\u1ea1o v\u1edbi tha th\u1ee9 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1? C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n kh\u00e1c nhau \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1eb7t ra cho m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn: \u201cT\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 xin s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc hay ch\u01b0a?\u201d; \u201cS\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng?\u201d; \u201cT\u00f4i c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng tha th\u1ee9 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 xin t\u00f4i th\u1ee9 tha?\u201d; \u201cT\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tha th\u1ee9 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i g\u00ec, n\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u00f3 nguy c\u01a1 l\u00e0m h\u1ecd nh\u1ee5c nh\u00e3?\u201d; \u201cT\u00f4i c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ee3i ch\u1edd th\u1eddi c\u01a1 \u2013 d\u1eabu bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn \u2013 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng?\u201d.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng nghi ng\u1edd v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u nguy hi\u1ec3m th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9, nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i! Ch\u00fang ta nh\u00ecn nhau qua v\u1ebb b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i, b\u1edfi v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec gi\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 v\u1edbi tha th\u1ee9 (ho\u1eb7c l\u00f2ng t\u1ed1t, ho\u1eb7c th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n) h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 (xin hay cho) c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1eb1ng h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Tha th\u1ee9 b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 \/ ho\u1eb7c vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Xin tha th\u1ee9, ban ph\u00e1t \u01a1n th\u1ee9 tha \u0111\u00f4i khi kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n t\u1ed1t khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i ra \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. M\u1edf mi\u1ec7ng ra v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201cXin b\u1ea1n tha cho t\u00f4i\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201ct\u00f4i tha th\u1ee9 cho b\u1ea1n\u201d l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u ch\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bao g\u1ed3m m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i \u00f4m ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n. Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u2013 khi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau truy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng cho s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 \u2013 l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1c h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c cho ph\u00e9p n\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. M\u1ed9t n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u1ed9t c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm, m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi n\u00f3i d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u ch\u1ec9 r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 cho nhau, ngay c\u1ea3 khi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o tha th\u1ee9 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay th\u1ebf b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Tha th\u1ee9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian (d\u1ea1y cho tr\u1ebb em tha th\u1ee9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn)<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh tha th\u1ee9 c\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian: Cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1eebng v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng hay n\u1ea3n ch\u00ed. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nhanh ch\u00f3ng tha th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i th\u1eadt l\u00f2ng. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n khi nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 tr\u1ea7m tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a h\u00e0nh vi ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i: h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y ra ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng. Qu\u00ean \u0111i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Tha th\u1ee9 trong m\u1ecdi d\u1ecbp<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cQu\u00e1 mu\u1ed9n r\u1ed3i\u201d \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1eddi d\u1ed1i tr\u00e1 c\u1ee7a Satan. Ch\u00ednh h\u1eafn \u0111\u00e3 qu\u1ea3 quy\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng th\u1ea3m k\u1ecbch c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00f4 v\u1ecdng, nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i, v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 cho \u0111i hay nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 tin v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi d\u1ed1i tr\u00e1 \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, b\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa xem ra qu\u00e1 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt. Ch\u00fang ta th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng tin r\u1eb1ng \u201c\u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3\u201d.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u1ea7u xin Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Tha th\u1ee9 gi\u00fap k\u00fd \u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh v\u00e0 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp l\u1ea1i trong b\u00ecnh an. Nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i h\u00e0nh vi ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh, ngay c\u1ea3 khi tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y n\u00f3 l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ch\u1ebft v\u00e0 nguy\u1ec1n r\u1ee7a. Th\u1ef1c ra, tha th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 Ph\u1ee5c sinh: b\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eeb c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft sang s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu s\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho ch\u00fang ta kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua n\u00e0y, \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho ch\u00fang ta kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ea7u xin tha th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ebfn \u201cb\u1ea3y m\u01b0\u01a1i l\u1ea7n b\u1ea3y\u201d (Mt 18,22), ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n. V\u00ec v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i khi c\u1ea7u xin Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang ta nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i m\u1ecdi l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m trong k\u00fd \u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i tha th\u1ee9. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3: Luc Adrian<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Chuy\u1ec3n ng\u1eef: Giuse V\u00f5 T\u00e1 Ho\u00e0ng<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

———-<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Chia s\u1ebb th\u00e1ng 5 – 2022<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ea7n, 3 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ea7n \u1edf ch\u1ed3ng<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

1. C\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quan t\u00e2m<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n ch\u1eb3ng c\u1ea7n g\u00ec qu\u00e1 to t\u00e1t, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ch\u1ed3ng quan t\u00e2m m\u00ecnh th\u1eadt l\u00f2ng. H\u1ecd c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i bia r\u01b0\u1ee3u \u0111\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 \u0103n c\u01a1m v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 con. C\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c m\u00ecnh khi b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt, \u1ed1m y\u1ebfu. C\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n d\u00e0nh cho m\u00ecnh s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t nh\u1ea5t.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

2. C\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 chung th\u1ee7y<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef lu\u00f4n mong m\u1ecfi \u1edf ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 chung th\u1ee7y. Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1edf b\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng ngh\u00e8o nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i. V\u00ec h\u1ecd nh\u1edb r\u1ea5t l\u00e2u, nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 n\u1ed7i \u0111au do k\u1ebb ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i g\u00e2y ra s\u1ebd theo h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ebfn khi nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft xu\u00f4i tay.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

3. C\u1ea7n ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef d\u00f9 ch\u1ecdn \u1edf nh\u00e0 n\u1ed9i tr\u1ee3 hay \u0111i l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng. Nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c trong nh\u00e0, h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ed3ng xem tr\u1ecdng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00ec v\u1eady \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u00ean bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec v\u1ee3 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

4. C\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00f9 \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef hay \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do. H\u1ecd v\u1eabn c\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng gian ri\u00eang d\u00f9 l\u00e0 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean h\u00e3y t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a nhau \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

3 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u1edf v\u1ee3<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

1. Mu\u1ed1n v\u1ee3 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00ean bi\u1ebft. \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh m\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o hi\u1ec3u h\u1ebft. Do \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n v\u1ee3 quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9. Khi nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c th\u1eadt t\u1ed1t.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

2. Mu\u1ed1n v\u1ee3 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Sau s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p, gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t. Ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c c\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 t\u1ed1t, h\u1ecd c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n cho cha m\u1eb9 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2u th\u1ea3o. V\u00ec v\u1eady h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n mong m\u1ecfi v\u1ee3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 quan t\u00e2m, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

3. Mu\u1ed1n v\u1ee3 b\u1edbt c\u00e0m r\u00e0m<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110i l\u00e0m, \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi. Khi v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, y\u00ean t\u0129nh \u0111\u1ec3 ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i. Do \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n v\u1ee3 im l\u1eb7ng trong nh\u1eefng l\u00fac n\u00e0y thay v\u00ec c\u1ee9 c\u00e0m r\u00e0m v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2u.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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Chia s\u1ebb th\u00e1ng 4 – 2022<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

TU\u1ed4I GI\u00c0 L\u00c0 M\u1ed8T H\u1ed2NG \u00c2N – L\u00c0 M\u1ed8T S\u1ee8 V\u1ee4<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

(Vi\u1ebft t\u1eb7ng nh\u1eefng ai \u0111\u00e3, \u0111ang v\u00e0 s\u1ebd b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0)<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Lm. Montfort Ph\u1ea1m Qu\u1ed1c Huy\u00ean O.Cist.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

D\u1eabn nh\u1eadp<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Trong v\u0103n ki\u1ec7n \u201cPh\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 s\u1ee9 v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd trong Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi\u201d (ban h\u00e0nh ng\u00e0y 01-10-1998), H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng Gi\u00e1o Ho\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 Gi\u00e1o D\u00e2n vi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCo\u0301 nh\u01b0\u0303ng ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i cao ni\u00ean hi\u00ea\u0309u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng: tu\u00f4\u0309i gia\u0300 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t giai \u0111o\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d v\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1ebf \u201cho\u0323 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u00e2\u0323n tu\u00f4\u0309i gia\u0300 kh\u00f4ng chi\u0309 trong s\u01b0\u0323 thanh tha\u0309n va\u0300 trong ph\u00e2\u0309m gia\u0301 ma\u0300 co\u0300n coi tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 la\u0300 th\u01a1\u0300i gian cung c\u00e2\u0301p cho ho\u0323 nh\u01b0\u0303ng c\u01a1 may m\u01a1\u0301i \u0111\u00ea\u0309 tr\u01b0\u01a1\u0309ng tha\u0300nh va\u0300 d\u00e2\u0301n th\u00e2n\u201d………<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng co\u0301 nh\u01b0\u0303ng ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i kha\u0301c l\u1ea1i xem tu\u00f4\u0309i gia\u0300 la\u0300 m\u00f4\u0323t kinh nghi\u00ea\u0323m \u0111au bu\u00f4\u0300n, va\u0300 pha\u0309n \u01b0\u0301ng v\u01a1\u0301i tha\u0301i \u0111\u00f4\u0323 t\u01b0\u0300 cam chi\u0323u thu\u0323 \u0111\u00f4\u0323ng \u0111\u00ea\u0301n n\u00f4\u0309i loa\u0323n, loa\u0323i bo\u0309 va\u0300 th\u00e2\u0301t vo\u0323ng nh\u01b0 n\u1eef v\u0103n s\u0129 n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u00e1p Simone de Beauvoir \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft: \u201cPh\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f4ng nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i nh\u00ecn vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u00e0 nua v\u1edbi n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3 v\u00e0 t\u00e2m t\u00ecnh n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n. H\u1ecd ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ee9a trong l\u00f2ng m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i \u00e1c c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u00e0 nua c\u00f2n l\u1edbn h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft n\u1eefa.\u201d \u0110\u00e2y la\u0300 nh\u01b0\u0303ng ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i tr\u01a1\u0309 n\u00ean b\u00ea\u0301 t\u0103\u0301c trong ba\u0309n th\u00e2n va\u0300 t\u01b0\u0323 \u0111\u01b0\u0301ng ra b\u00ean l\u00ea\u0300, b\u1edfi v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng: L\u00e3o h\u00f3a l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh c\u1ed1t y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n ph\u1eadn l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u1ed1i b\u1ecf n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111em l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t tai h\u1ea1i l\u1edbn lao. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1, hay t\u00e1i kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 trong s\u1ef1 l\u00e3o h\u00f3a c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i l\u00e0m phong ph\u00fa cho ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. ……..<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Vi\u0300 l\u00fd do \u0111\u00f3, b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i l\u00ean \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 s\u1ee9 v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao ni\u00ean. Tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ed3ng \u00e2n, l\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 tr\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 l\u00e0m con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9 v\u1ee5 truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9c tin v\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, d\u00e2ng nh\u1eefng \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 hy sinh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh, Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa trong ng\u00e0y sau h\u1ebft c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. Hy v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y cung c\u00e2\u0301p m\u00f4\u0323t va\u0300i s\u01b0\u0323 tr\u01a1\u0323 giu\u0301p t\u00e2m linh nho nh\u1ecf cho nh\u1eefng ai \u0111\u00e3, \u0111ang hay s\u1ebd b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

1-Y\u0301 nghi\u0303a v\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 cu\u0309a tu\u00f4\u0309i gia\u0300<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111ang gi\u00e0 \u0111i v\u00e0 s\u1ebd ho\u00e0n t\u1ea5t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o c\u00f5i \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft bao nhi\u00eau \u00e2n hu\u1ec7, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c m\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa trao ban cho ch\u00fang ta qua \u00f4ng b\u00e0, cha m\u1eb9, h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng, c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c, c\u00e1c tu s\u0129, c\u00e1c th\u1ea7y c\u00f4, anh ch\u1ecb em, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n quen. Khi ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1eefng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, t\u1ef1 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh qua l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi \u0111\u00e3 v\u01b0\u01a1n t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec9nh cao c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ea7y t\u1ef1 tin, ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u00f4ng b\u00e0, cha m\u1eb9, linh m\u1ee5c, tu s\u0129, th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 . . . \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, trao ban v\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cho c\u00e1c th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 k\u1ebf ti\u1ebfp. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 trao ban \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c khi ch\u00fang ta b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1eddi h\u1ed3ng \u00e2n, v\u00e0 ng\u00e0y c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 g\u1ea7n k\u1ec1. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

a-Tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ed3ng \u00e2n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Trong Kinh Th\u00e1nh, tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa d\u00e0nh cho nh\u1eefng ai v\u00e2ng ph\u1ee5c Ng\u00e0i: \u201cAnh em h\u00e3y \u0111i \u0111\u00fang con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa, Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa c\u1ee7a anh em, \u0111\u00e3 truy\u1ec1n cho anh em, \u0111\u1ec3 anh em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e2u tr\u00ean m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ea5t m\u00e0 anh em s\u1ebd chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu\u201d (\u0110nl 5, 33) v\u00e0 \u201cAnh em ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef c\u00e1c th\u00e1nh ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0 m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u00e0 h\u00f4m nay t\u00f4i truy\u1ec1n cho anh em ; nh\u01b0 v\u1eady anh em v\u00e0 con ch\u00e1u anh em sau n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, v\u00e0 anh em s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e2u tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea5t m\u00e0 \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa, Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa c\u1ee7a anh em, v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n ban cho anh em\u201d (\u0110nl 4, 40). Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu\u00e2n gi\u1eef gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e2u: \u201cN\u00e0y con, \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00ean l\u00e3ng gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y, hu\u1ea5n l\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y, l\u00f2ng con lo gi\u1eef tr\u1ecdn. V\u00ec nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3, con s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e2u tr\u0103m tu\u1ed5i, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y tr\u00e0n ph\u00fac l\u1ed9c b\u00ecnh an\u201d (Cn 3, 1-2). Tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa ban cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f4ng ch\u00ednh: \u201cM\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1c l\u00e0 tri\u1ec1u thi\u00ean vinh hi\u1ec3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eb7ng ban cho k\u1ebb s\u1ed1ng c\u00f4ng ch\u00ednh\u201d (Cn 16, 31). Tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi con hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o nh\u01b0 t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef Vi\u1ec7t Nam \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: \u201cK\u00ednh gi\u00e0, gi\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 tu\u1ed5i cho\u201d v\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa c\u0169ng h\u1ee9a nh\u01b0 v\u1eady: \u201cNg\u01b0\u01a1i h\u00e3y th\u1edd cha k\u00ednh m\u1eb9, nh\u01b0 \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa, Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u01a1i, \u0111\u00e3 truy\u1ec1n cho ng\u01b0\u01a1i, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e2u\u201d (\u0110nl 5, 16).<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho gi\u1edd ra \u0111i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ed3ng \u00e2n qu\u00ed b\u00e1u nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00e1o ho\u00e0ng Gioan Phaol\u00f4 II n\u00f3i: \u201c\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u00e2n hu\u1ec7. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 cho ch\u00fang ta kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m V\u01b0\u1ee3t Qua m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u00e2u xa h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1edf n\u00ean kho t\u00e0ng kinh nghi\u1ec7m qu\u00fd b\u00e1u cho Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i\u201d. \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c s\u1ee7ng c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0, m\u1ed9t l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i c\u00f3 nh\u00e2n sinh quan tr\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea7y.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

b-Tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 tr\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Cu\u00f4\u0323c s\u00f4\u0301ng cu\u0309a chu\u0301ng ta th\u01b0\u1eddng bi\u0323 th\u00f4\u0301ng tri\u0323 b\u01a1\u0309i c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m \u0103n, vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed, b\u1edfi t\u00ednh \u00edch k\u1ef7, ghen ghe\u0301t, t\u00ednh ham h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng na\u0301o \u0111\u00f4\u0323ng va\u0300 c\u0103ng th\u0103\u0309ng n\u01a1i c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n, Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. \u0110\u00e2y la\u0300 m\u00f4\u0323t cu\u00f4\u0323c s\u00f4\u0301ng bi\u0323 ph\u00e2n ta\u0301n trong \u0111o\u0301 nh\u01b0\u0303ng c\u00e2u ho\u0309i n\u00ea\u0300n ta\u0309ng v\u00ea\u0300 \u01a1n go\u0323i, ph\u00e2\u0309m gia\u0301 va\u0300 s\u00f4\u0301 ph\u00e2\u0323n cu\u0309a con ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i bi\u0323 la\u0303ng qu\u00ean.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, sau m\u1ed9t ch\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00e0i c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao ni\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua bao ngh\u1ecbch c\u1ea3nh, bao s\u00f3ng gi\u00f3, bao th\u0103ng tr\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi cu\u0309a \u0111\u01a1n s\u01a1, thanh th\u1ea3n va\u0300 chi\u00eam ni\u00ea\u0323m, \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 tr\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u201c\u0110\u1eddi con cay \u0111\u1eafng \u0111\u00e3 nhi\u1ec1u……….<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

H\u1eadn th\u00f9 danh l\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ed1t thi\u00eau c\u00f5i l\u00f2ng<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

H\u1ed3n con mong m\u1ecfi s\u1ea1ch trong<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

M\u00e1i ch\u00e8o bu\u00f4ng nh\u1eb9 theo d\u00f2ng thuy\u1ec1n tr\u00f4i<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

H\u1ed3n con, th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec3 xa r\u1eddi<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m \u00e2n o\u00e1n m\u01b0u \u0111\u1eddi gh\u00e9t ghen\u201d<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

(Th\u00e1nh thi gi\u1edd Kinh \u0110\u00eam ng\u00e0y Th\u1ee9 N\u0103m tu\u1ea7n I, trong s\u00e1ch \u201cC\u00e1c Gi\u1edd Kinh Ph\u1ee5ng V\u1ee5\u201d c\u1ee7a D\u00f2ng Xit\u00f4)<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ca\u0301c gia\u0301 tri\u0323 lu\u00e2n ly\u0301 va\u0300 t\u00f4n gia\u0301o n\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i gia\u0300 la\u0300 m\u00f4\u0323t ta\u0300i nguy\u00ean c\u00e2\u0300n thi\u00ea\u0301t cho vi\u00ea\u0323c cu\u0309ng c\u00f4\u0301 s\u01b0\u0323 ho\u0300a h\u01a1\u0323p cu\u0309a xa\u0303 h\u00f4\u0323i, gia \u0111i\u0300nh va\u0300 ca\u0301 nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ee9c Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eed n\u00f3i: \u201cL\u1ee5c th\u1eadp nhi nh\u0129 thu\u1eadn\u201d: 60 tu\u1ed5i th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ch\u01b0\u1edbng tai gai m\u1eaft; do l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00fang c\u0103n nguy\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c di\u1ec5n ra xung quanh v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u nh\u00e2n t\u00ecnh th\u1ebf th\u00e1i, n\u00ean d\u1ec5 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 khoan dung h\u01a1n \u2013 nh\u00ecn s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n th\u1ea5y ch\u01b0\u1edbng tai gai m\u1eaft (thu\u1eadn nh\u0129); kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u00f2n n\u00f4ng c\u1ea1n, n\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1edbc nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 \u201cth\u1ea5t th\u1eadp nhi t\u00f9ng t\u00e2m s\u1edf d\u1ee5c, b\u1ea5t du c\u1ee7\u201d: 70 tu\u1ed5i s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch x\u1eed th\u1ebf \u1edf \u0111\u1eddi, n\u00f3i hay l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u0169ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi ch\u1ee7 t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd v\u01b0\u1ee3t ra kh\u1ecfi khu\u00f4n kh\u1ed5.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao ni\u00ean c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kinh nghi\u1ec7m phong ph\u00fa v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m linh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp thu c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb phong ph\u00fa c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e2u n\u0103m tr\u00ean c\u00f5i \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y nh\u01b0 t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef Vi\u1ec7t Nam v\u1eabn n\u00f3i: \u201c\u0110i h\u1ecfi gi\u00e0 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 h\u1ecfi tr\u1ebb\u201d. Nh\u01b0\u0303ng gia\u0301 tri\u0323 na\u0300y bao g\u00f4\u0300m m\u00f4\u0323t ca\u0309m th\u01b0\u0301c v\u00ea\u0300 tra\u0301ch nhi\u00ea\u0323m, \u0111\u01b0\u0301c tin va\u0300o Thi\u00ean Chu\u0301a, ti\u0300nh ba\u0323n, ti\u0301nh v\u00f4 vi\u0323 l\u01a1\u0323i trong quy\u00ea\u0300n l\u01b0\u0323c, kh\u00f4n ngoan, ki\u00ean nh\u00e2\u0303n, c\u00e2\u0309n tro\u0323ng, va\u0300 m\u00f4\u0323t xa\u0301c ti\u0301n n\u00f4\u0323i t\u00e2m v\u00ea\u0300 nhu c\u00e2\u0300u t\u00f4n tro\u0323ng th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean va\u0300 cu\u0309ng c\u00f4\u0301 ho\u0300a bi\u0300nh. Ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i gia\u0300 hi\u00ea\u0309u s\u01b0\u0323 v\u01b0\u01a1\u0323t tr\u00f4\u0323i cu\u0309a ca\u0301i la\u0300, h\u01a1n h\u1eb3n ca\u0301i co\u0301. Xa\u0303 h\u00f4\u0323i loa\u0300i ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i se\u0303 t\u00f4\u0301t h\u01a1n n\u00ea\u0301u bi\u1ebft ho\u0323c h\u1ecfi t\u01b0\u0300 ca\u0301c \u0111\u0103\u0323c su\u0309ng cu\u0309a ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i gia\u0300.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Va\u0300 ph\u00e2\u0309m ch\u00e2\u0301t cu\u0309a tu\u00f4\u0309i gia\u0300 se\u0303 phu\u0323 thu\u00f4\u0323c va\u0300o kha\u0309 n\u0103ng chu\u0301ng ta n\u0103\u0301m b\u0103\u0301t y\u0301 nghi\u0303a cu\u0309a no\u0301 va\u0300 l\u01b0\u01a1\u0323ng gia\u0301 no\u0301 v\u00ea\u0300 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u00ea\u0323n con ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i va\u0300 \u0111\u01b0\u0301c tin Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o. Chu\u0301ng ta c\u00e2\u0300n ch\u00e2\u0301p nh\u00e2\u0323n tu\u00f4\u0309i gia\u0300 la\u0300 m\u00f4\u0323t giai \u0111oa\u0323n qua \u0111o\u0301 Chu\u0301a Kit\u00f4 d\u00e2\u0303n chu\u0301ng ta v\u00ea\u0300 Nha\u0300 Cha (Ga 14, 2). Chi\u0309 trong a\u0301nh sa\u0301ng \u0111\u01b0\u0301c tin, \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c cu\u0309ng c\u00f4\u0301 b\u01a1\u0309i ni\u00ea\u0300m hy vo\u0323ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u0323 l\u01b0\u0300a d\u00f4\u0301i (Rm 5, 5), chu\u0301ng ta co\u0301 th\u00ea\u0309 ch\u00e2\u0301p nh\u00e2\u0323n tu\u00f4\u0309i gia\u0300 v\u01a1\u0301i ti\u0301nh ca\u0301ch la\u0300 m\u00f4\u0323t h\u00f4\u0300ng \u00e2n va\u0300 m\u00f4\u0323t s\u1ee9 vu\u0323. \u0110o\u0301 la\u0300 bi\u0301 quy\u00ea\u0301t cu\u0309a s\u01b0\u0323 t\u01b0\u01a1i tre\u0309 tinh th\u00e2\u0300n, tinh th\u00e2\u0300n vui t\u01b0\u01a1i v\u00e0 tr\u1ebb trung ma\u0300 chu\u0301ng ta co\u0301 th\u00ea\u0309 vun tr\u00f4\u0300ng b\u00e2\u0301t ch\u00e2\u0301p s\u01b0\u0323 qua \u0111i cu\u0309a n\u0103m tha\u0301ng. Aldous Huxley bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi \u00f4ng vi\u1ebft cho Julian l\u00e0 em trai c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng trong ng\u00e0y k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m sinh nh\u1eadt c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng: \u201cTh\u1eadt kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh gi\u00e0. Anh ngh\u0129 c\u1ea3 hai anh em m\u00ecnh thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 nh\u00f3m thi\u1ec3u s\u1ed1 trong nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn gi\u1eef l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u00e0 linh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb, trong khi s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng vui h\u01b0\u1edfng hoa tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t chu\u1ed7i kinh nghi\u1ec7m d\u00e0i t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i.\u201d<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00ea\u0309 n\u0103\u0301m b\u0103\u0301t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 v\u1ec1 gia\u0301 tri\u0323 v\u00e0 s\u1ee9 v\u1ee5 cu\u0309a ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i gia\u0300, chu\u0301ng ta c\u00e2\u0300n m\u01a1\u0309 Kinh Tha\u0301nh ra, \u0111\u1ecdc, v\u00e0 nghi\u1ec1n ng\u1eabm. Chi\u0309 c\u00f3 a\u0301nh sa\u0301ng cu\u0309a L\u01a1\u0300i Thi\u00ean Chu\u0301a m\u1edbi cho chu\u0301ng ta nh\u1eadn ra chi\u00ea\u0300u s\u00e2u v\u1ec1 th\u00e2\u0300n ho\u0323c, t\u00e2m linh, v\u00e0 lu\u00e2n ly\u0301 cu\u0309a giai \u0111oa\u0323n na\u0300y cu\u0309a cu\u00f4\u0323c s\u00f4\u0301ng.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

2-Gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 s\u1ee9 v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa mu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i cao ni\u00ean c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c v\u00e0o ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee9u r\u1ed7i lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i v\u00e0 trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng trong l\u1ecbch s\u1eed c\u1ee9u chu\u1ed9c.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

a-Nh\u1eefng d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee5 \u0111\u1eafc l\u1ef1c trong k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ecdc Kinh Th\u00e1nh ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y: k\u00ea\u0301 hoa\u0323ch c\u01b0\u0301u \u0111\u00f4\u0323 cu\u0309a Thi\u00ean Chu\u0301a \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c th\u01b0\u0323c hi\u00ea\u0323n trong s\u01b0\u0323 mo\u0309ng gio\u0300n cu\u0309a nh\u1eefng th\u00e2n xa\u0301c y\u00ea\u0301u \u0111u\u00f4\u0301i, b\u00e2\u0301t l\u01b0\u0323c va\u0300 kh\u00f4ng co\u0300n tre\u0309 trung n\u01b0\u0303a. Chi\u0301nh t\u01b0\u0300 lo\u0300ng da\u0323 son se\u0309 cu\u0309a ba\u0300 Sara va\u0300 th\u00e2n xa\u0301c gia\u0300 y\u00ea\u0301u cu\u0309a \u00f4ng Abraham ma\u0300 D\u00e2n tuy\u00ea\u0309n cho\u0323n \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c sinh ra (Rm 4, 18-20). Va\u0300 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u01b0\u0323 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, t\u01b0\u0300 lo\u0300ng da\u0323 son se\u0309 cu\u0309a ba\u0300 Elisabeth va\u0300 \u00f4ng Zacaria ma\u0300 Gioan T\u00e2\u0309y Gia\u0309, \u0111\u00e2\u0301ng ti\u00ea\u0300n h\u00f4 cu\u0309a \u0110\u00e2\u0301ng C\u01b0\u0301u Th\u00ea\u0301 \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c sinh ra (Lc 1, 5-25). Nh\u01b0\u0303ng ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i gia\u0300, ngay ca\u0309 khi s\u01b0\u0323 s\u00f4\u0301ng cu\u0309a ho\u0323 d\u01b0\u01a1\u0300ng nh\u01b0 r\u1ea5t y\u00ea\u0301u \u0111u\u00f4\u0301i, r\u00e3 r\u1eddi th\u00ec h\u1ecd v\u00e2\u0303n la\u0300 nh\u1eefng du\u0323ng cu\u0323 \u0111\u1eafc l\u1ef1c cu\u0309a li\u0323ch s\u01b0\u0309 c\u01b0\u0301u \u0111\u00f4\u0323 v\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau v\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c: \u201ccho s\u1ed1ng l\u00e2u, tu\u1ed5i th\u1ecd d\u01b0 \u0111\u1ea7y, v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edfng \u01a1n c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ed9 Ta ban” (Tv 91, 16). C\u00e1c c\u1ee5 \u00f4ng c\u1ee5 b\u00e0 cao ni\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi loan b\u00e1o Tin m\u1eebng \u01a1n c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ed9, qua vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd thu\u1eadt l\u1ea1i cho con ch\u00e1u nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 c\u00f4ng Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh: \u201cL\u1ea1y Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, tai ch\u00fang con \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

truy\u1ec7n cha \u00f4ng v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m n\u00ean,<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

th\u1eddi c\u00e1c c\u1ee5 thu\u1edf xa x\u01b0a \u1ea5y\u201d (Tv 44, 2).<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Cu\u00f4\u0323c s\u00f4\u0301ng cu\u0309a ca\u0301c t\u00f4\u0309 phu\u0323 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t minh ch\u1ee9ng th\u00e2\u0323t hu\u0300ng h\u00f4\u0300n cho quan \u0111i\u1ec3m na\u0300y. Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, khi \u00f4ng M\u00f4s\u00ea g\u1eb7p bu\u0323i gai b\u00f4\u0301c cha\u0301y, Thi\u00ean Chu\u0301a \u0111\u00e3 hi\u00ea\u0323n ra v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u01a1\u0301i \u00f4ng: \u201cTa la\u0300 Thi\u00ean Chu\u0301a cu\u0309a cha \u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u01a1i, Thi\u00ean Chu\u0301a cu\u0309a Abraham, Thi\u00ean Chu\u0301a cu\u0309a Isaac, Thi\u00ean Chu\u0301a cu\u0309a Giaco\u0301p\u201d (Xh 3, 6). Thi\u00ean Chu\u0301a \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f4\u0301i k\u00ea\u0301t t\u00ean cu\u0309a Nga\u0300i v\u01a1\u0301i ca\u0301c t\u00f4\u0309 phu\u0323, nh\u01b0\u0303ng ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i \u0111a\u0323i di\u00ea\u0323n cho s\u01b0\u0323 h\u01a1\u0323p pha\u0301p va\u0300 ba\u0309o \u0111a\u0309m cho \u0111\u01b0\u0301c tin cu\u0309a Israel. Trong C\u01b0\u0323u \u01b0\u01a1\u0301c, con cha\u0301u lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n la\u0300 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i \u0111o\u0301n nh\u00e2\u0323n \u0111\u1ee9c tin v\u00e0o Thi\u00ean Chu\u0301a t\u01b0\u0300 cha \u00f4ng h\u1ecd. Vi\u1ec7c l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb \u201cThi\u00ean Chu\u0301a cu\u0309a . ..\u201d cho th\u00e2\u0301y m\u00f4\u0303i t\u00f4\u0309 phu\u0323 co\u0301 kinh nghi\u00ea\u0323m ri\u00eang v\u00ea\u0300 Thi\u00ean Chu\u0301a. Va\u0300 kinh nghi\u00ea\u0323m na\u0300y la\u0300 di sa\u0309n cu\u0309a ca\u0301c t\u00f4\u0309 phu\u0323, la\u0300 ly\u0301 do cu\u0309a vi\u00ea\u0323c ho\u0323 lu\u00f4n t\u01b0\u01a1i tre\u0309 v\u00ea\u0300 tinh th\u00e2\u0300n va\u0300 thanh tha\u0309n khi \u0111\u00f4\u0301i di\u00ea\u0323n tr\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c ca\u0301i ch\u00ea\u0301t.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Quy\u00ea\u0300n n\u0103ng cu\u0309a Thi\u00ean Chu\u0301a co\u0301 th\u00ea\u0309 \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c to\u0309 l\u00f4\u0323 trong tu\u00f4\u0309i gia\u0300, ngay ca\u0309 khi th\u00e2n x\u00e1c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao ni\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean suy s\u1ee5p, y\u1ebfu k\u00e9m, b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt: \u201cSong nh\u1eefng g\u00ec th\u1ebf gian cho l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu k\u00e9m, th\u00ec Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ea1 nh\u1ee5c nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb h\u00f9ng m\u1ea1nh, h\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t ph\u00e0m nh\u00e2n n\u00e0o d\u00e1m t\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5 tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t Ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d (1 Cr 1, 27-29). Ch\u00ednh nh\u1edd c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u00e2u xa v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa d\u00e0nh cho m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao ni\u00ean m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng cho c\u00e1c th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 sau m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9c tin ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

b-M\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n s\u1ee9 truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9c tin v\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u01b0\u0301c Gioan Phaolo II \u0111a\u0303 kh\u0103\u0309ng \u0111i\u0323nh vai tr\u00f2 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 khi no\u0301i chuy\u00ea\u0323n v\u01a1\u0301i h\u01a1n 8000 ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i cao tu\u00f4\u0309i trong nga\u0300y 23-03-1984: \u201cAnh chi\u0323 em \u0111\u01b0\u0300ng nga\u0323c nhi\u00ean b\u01a1\u0309i nh\u01b0\u0303ng ca\u0301m d\u00f4\u0303 v\u00ea\u0300 s\u01b0\u0323 c\u00f4 ti\u0323ch b\u00ean trong. B\u00e2\u0301t k\u00ea\u0309 s\u01b0\u0323 ph\u01b0\u0301c ta\u0323p cu\u0309a nh\u01b0\u0303ng v\u00e2\u0301n \u0111\u00ea\u0300 cu\u0309a anh chi\u0323 em, s\u01b0\u0301c kho\u0309e sa su\u0301t, nh\u01b0\u0303ng ch\u00e2\u0323m tr\u00ea\u0303 cu\u0309a lu\u00e2\u0323t pha\u0301p, nh\u01b0\u0303ng th\u00e2\u0301t ba\u0323i trong vi\u00ea\u0323c th\u00f4ng ca\u0309m cu\u0309a m\u00f4\u0323t xa\u0303 h\u00f4\u0323i i\u0301ch ky\u0309, anh chi\u0323 em \u0111\u01b0\u0300ng xem chi\u0301nh mi\u0300nh la\u0300 \u01a1\u0309 b\u00ean l\u00ea\u0300 cu\u0309a \u0111\u01a1\u0300i s\u00f4\u0301ng Gia\u0301o h\u00f4\u0323i, la\u0300 nh\u01b0\u0303ng tha\u0300nh vi\u00ean thu\u0323 \u0111\u00f4\u0323ng trong m\u00f4\u0323t th\u00ea\u0301 gi\u01a1\u0301i hoa\u0323t \u0111\u00f4\u0323ng, nh\u01b0ng anh chi\u0323 em la\u0300 nh\u01b0\u0303ng chu\u0309 th\u00ea\u0309 hoa\u0323t \u0111\u00f4\u0323ng ti\u0301ch c\u01b0\u0323c trong s\u01b0\u0323 hi\u00ea\u0323n h\u01b0\u0303u cu\u0309a con ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i, nh\u01b0\u0303ng ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i phong phu\u0301 v\u00ea\u0300 nh\u00e2n ba\u0309n va\u0300 t\u00e2m linh. Anh chi\u0323 em co\u0301 m\u00f4\u0323t s\u01b0\u0301 vu\u0323 \u0111\u00ea\u0309 th\u01b0\u0323c hi\u00ea\u0323n va\u0300 co\u0301 m\u00f4\u0323t ph\u00e2\u0300n vu\u0323 \u0111\u00ea\u0309 thi ha\u0300nh\u201d.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao tu\u1ed5i ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 qu\u00ean l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang gi\u00e0 \u0111i. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 c\u00e1c v\u1ecb ng\u00f4n s\u1ee9, h\u1ecd nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf ch\u00fang ta \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng n\u01a1i h\u1ecd, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e0 \u0111i m\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111ang tr\u1ea3i qua. Theo Kinh Tha\u0301nh, m\u00f4\u0323t trong nh\u01b0\u0303ng \u0111\u0103\u0323c su\u0309ng cu\u0309a ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i s\u00f4\u0301ng l\u00e2u la\u0300 s\u01b0\u0323 kh\u00f4n ngoan. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4n ngoan kh\u00f4ng t\u01b0\u0323 \u0111\u00f4\u0323ng ma\u0300 co\u0301 \u0111\u00f4\u0301i v\u01a1\u0301i tu\u00f4\u0309i gia\u0300, kh\u00f4n ngoan m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao ni\u00ean c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 do tr\u1ea3i qua nhi\u1ec1u kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ed1i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110o\u0301 la\u0300 m\u00f4\u0323t h\u00f4\u0300ng \u00e2n cu\u0309a Thi\u00ean Chu\u0301a, m\u00f4\u0323t h\u00f4\u0300ng \u00e2n ma\u0300 ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i gia\u0300 \u0111o\u0301n nh\u00e2\u0323n va\u0300 c\u0169ng la\u0300 mu\u0323c ti\u00eau cu\u0309a ho\u0323. Chi\u0309 khi theo \u0111u\u00f4\u0309i mu\u0323c ti\u00eau na\u0300y, ho\u0323 m\u01a1\u0301i \u0111a\u0323t \u0111\u00ea\u0301n s\u01b0\u0323 kh\u00f4n ngoan cu\u0309a t\u00e2m tri\u0301 \u0111\u00ea\u0309 \u201c\u0111\u00ea\u0301m tha\u0301ng nga\u0300y mi\u0300nh s\u00f4\u0301ng\u201d(Tv 90, 12), \u0111\u00ea\u0309 s\u00f4\u0301ng th\u01a1\u0300i gian ma\u0300 Chu\u0301a quan pho\u0300ng ban cho m\u00f4\u0303i ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i chu\u0301ng ta v\u01a1\u0301i m\u00f4\u0323t tinh th\u00e2\u0300n tra\u0301ch nhi\u00ea\u0323m. Y\u00ea\u0301u ti\u0301nh cu\u0309a s\u01b0\u0323 kh\u00f4n ngoan na\u0300y la\u0300 kha\u0301m pha\u0301 ra y\u0301 nghi\u0303a s\u00e2u xa cu\u0309a cu\u00f4\u0323c s\u00f4\u0301ng con ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i va\u0300 s\u00f4\u0301 ph\u00e2\u0323n si\u00eau vi\u00ea\u0323t cu\u0309a con ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i trong Thi\u00ean Chu\u0301a. Va\u0300 n\u00ea\u0301u \u0111\u00e2y la\u0300 \u0111i\u00ea\u0300u quan tro\u0323ng \u0111\u00f4\u0301i v\u01a1\u0301i ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i tre\u0309, thi\u0300 no\u0301 co\u0300n quan tro\u0323ng h\u01a1n \u0111\u00f4\u0301i v\u01a1\u0301i ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i gia\u0300, nh\u01b0\u0303ng ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c m\u01a1\u0300i go\u0323i \u0111i\u0323nh h\u01b0\u01a1\u0301ng cu\u00f4\u0323c s\u00f4\u0301ng cu\u0309a ho\u0323 v\u1edbi ca\u0301i nhi\u0300n v\u00ea\u0300 \u201c\u0111i\u00ea\u0300u c\u00e2\u0300n thi\u00ea\u0301t duy nh\u00e2\u0301t\u201d (Lc 10,42).<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

M\u00f4\u0323t ca\u0301ch nghi\u0323ch ly\u0301, chi\u0301nh ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i gia\u0300 kh\u0103\u0309ng \u0111i\u0323nh mi\u0300nh qua vi\u00ea\u0323c truy\u00ea\u0300n thu\u0323 cho nh\u01b0\u0303ng ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i kha\u0301c \u0111\u1ee9c tin v\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa m\u00e0 ho\u0323 \u0111a\u0303 nh\u00e2\u0323n \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c. Trong m\u00f4\u0323t th\u00ea\u0301 gi\u01a1\u0301i ca tu\u0323ng tu\u00f4\u0309i tre\u0309, c\u0103\u0301t xe\u0301n ky\u0301 \u01b0\u0301c hay t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, s\u01b0\u0323 ki\u00ea\u0323n na\u0300y la\u0300m cho chu\u0301ng ta d\u01b0\u0300ng la\u0323i \u0111\u00ea\u0309 suy nghi\u0303 v\u1ec1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn lao c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c v\u1ecb cao ni\u00ean: \u201cGi\u00e0 c\u1ed7i r\u1ed3i, v\u1eabn sinh hoa k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3, tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u1ef1a s\u1ed1ng, c\u00e0nh l\u00e1 xanh r\u1eddn\u201d (Tv 92, 14). \u00d4ng M\u00f4s\u00ea bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi d\u00e2n Israel: \u201cH\u00e3y nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a th\u00e1ng c\u0169, v\u00e0 ng\u1eabm xem t\u1eebng th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 qua r\u1ed3i. C\u1ee9 h\u1ecfi cha ng\u01b0\u01a1i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd d\u1ea1y, th\u1ec9nh b\u1eadc l\u00e3o th\u00e0nh, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd n\u00f3i cho nghe\u201d (\u0110nl 32, 7). V\u00ec th\u1ebf, lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng v\u1ecb cao ni\u00ean \u1ea9n m\u00ecnh, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i m\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1eefa \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd b\u1ea3o cho ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng t\u1eeb kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u cho \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac k\u1ebft th\u00fac, \u201cth\u1ec9nh b\u1eadc l\u00e3o th\u00e0nh, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd n\u00f3i cho nghe\u201d.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

c-S\u1ee9 v\u1ee5 d\u00e2ng \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 hy sinh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh, Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Kinh Th\u00e1nh c\u0169ng nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf ch\u00fang ta: Con \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0300ng duy nh\u00e2\u0301t \u0111\u00ea\u0309 s\u00f4\u0301ng t\u00f4\u0301t trong tu\u00f4\u0309i gia\u0300 la\u0300 s\u00f4\u0301ng no\u0301 trong Thi\u00ean Chu\u0301a. \u201cCon \u1ea9n n\u00e1u b\u00ean Ng\u00e0i, l\u1ea1y Ch\u00faa, xin \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 con ph\u1ea3i t\u1ee7i nh\u1ee5c bao gi\u1edd\u201d (Tv 71, 1). Tha\u0301nh vi\u0323nh na\u0300y th\u00e2\u0323t \u0111e\u0323p, n\u00f3 la\u0300 m\u00f4\u0323t trong nh\u01b0\u0303ng l\u01a1\u0300i c\u00e2\u0300u nguy\u00ea\u0323n cu\u0309a nhi\u00ea\u0300u ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i ma\u0300 chu\u0301ng ta ti\u0300m th\u00e2\u0301y trong Kinh Tha\u0301nh va\u0300 \u0111o\u0301 c\u0169ng la\u0300 ca\u0309m th\u01b0\u0301c t\u00f4n gia\u0301o cu\u0309a m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m h\u00f4\u0300n s\u00f4\u0301ng trong s\u01b0\u0323 hi\u00ea\u0323n di\u00ea\u0323n cu\u0309a Thi\u00ean Chu\u0301a.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00e2\u0300u nguy\u00ea\u0323n la\u0300 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u00ea\u0323n chu\u0309 y\u00ea\u0301u trong s\u01b0\u0323 hi\u00ea\u0309u bi\u00ea\u0301t v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m linh v\u00e0 cu\u00f4\u0323c s\u00f4\u0301ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i gia\u0300. C\u00e2\u0300u nguy\u00ea\u0323n la\u0300 m\u00f4\u0323t s\u01b0\u0323 phu\u0323c vu\u0323 v\u00e0 la\u0300 s\u01b0\u0301 vu\u0323 ma\u0300 ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i gia\u0300 th\u01b0\u0323c hi\u00ea\u0323n cho s\u01b0\u0323 thi\u00ea\u0323n ha\u0309o cu\u0309a toa\u0300n Gia\u0301o h\u00f4\u0323i va\u0300 th\u00ea\u0301 gi\u01a1\u0301i. Ngay ca\u0309 ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i gi\u00e0 \u0111au y\u00ea\u0301u b\u00ea\u0323nh t\u00e2\u0323t cu\u0303ng co\u0301 th\u00ea\u0309 c\u00e2\u0300u nguy\u00ea\u0323n. C\u1ea7u nguy\u00ea\u0323n la\u0300 s\u01b0\u0301c ma\u0323nh cu\u0309a ho\u0323, la\u0300 s\u01b0\u0323 s\u00f4\u0301ng cu\u0309a ho\u0323. Qua c\u00e2\u0300u nguy\u00ea\u0323n, ho\u0323 co\u0301 th\u00ea\u0309 pha\u0301 \u0111\u00f4\u0309 b\u01b0\u0301c t\u01b0\u01a1\u0300ng c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, v\u01b0\u01a1\u0323t l\u00ean s\u00f4\u0301 ph\u00e2\u0323n \u0111au bu\u1ed3n cu\u0309a ho\u0323 va\u0300 chia se\u0309 ni\u00ea\u0300m vui, n\u00f4\u0303i bu\u00f4\u0300n cu\u0309a nh\u01b0\u0303ng ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i kha\u0301c.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Tin m\u1eebng Luca cho ch\u00fang ta m\u1ed9t g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eabu v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y: \u201cL\u1ea1i c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t n\u1eef ng\u00f4n s\u1ee9 t\u00ean l\u00e0 Anna, con \u00f4ng P\u01a1nu\u00ean, thu\u1ed9c chi t\u1ed9c Ase. B\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 nhi\u1ec1u tu\u1ed5i l\u1eafm. T\u1eeb khi xu\u1ea5t gi\u00e1, b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3y n\u0103m, r\u1ed3i \u1edf go\u00e1, \u0111\u1ebfn nay \u0111\u00e3 t\u00e1m m\u01b0\u01a1i t\u01b0 tu\u1ed5i. B\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng r\u1eddi b\u1ecf \u0110\u1ec1n Th\u1edd, nh\u1eefng \u0103n chay c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, s\u1edbm h\u00f4m th\u1edd ph\u01b0\u1ee3ng Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa\u201d (Lc 2, 36-37). C\u1ee5 b\u00e0 Anna 84 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e3 bi\u00ea\u0301t bi\u0301 quy\u00ea\u0301t l\u00e0m cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi cu\u0309a c\u1ee5 \u0111em l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u hoa tr\u00e1i nh\u1ea5t cho Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i: c\u00e2\u0300u nguy\u00ea\u0323n va\u0300 hy sinh. Thay vi\u0300 u\u00f4\u0309ng phi\u0301 th\u01a1\u0300i gian v\u01a1\u0301i nh\u01b0\u0303ng s\u01b0\u0323 \u01a1\u0309 th\u00ea\u0301 gian na\u0300y, ba\u0300 \u01a1\u0309 la\u0323i trong \u0111\u00ea\u0300n th\u01a1\u0300 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0103n chay c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, s\u1edbm h\u00f4m th\u1edd ph\u01b0\u1ee3ng Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00e2\u0300u nguy\u00ea\u0323n va\u0300 ti\u00ea\u0301n tri\u0300nh l\u01a1\u0301n l\u00ean thi\u0300 kh\u00f4ng tra\u0301nh \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c nh\u01b0\u0303ng kho\u0301 kh\u0103n. Con \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0300ng c\u00e2\u0300u nguy\u00ea\u0323n thi\u0300 kh\u00f4ng d\u00ea\u0303 da\u0300ng. Trong cu\u00f4\u0323c s\u00f4\u0301ng, chu\u0301ng ta g\u0103\u0323p pha\u0309i nhi\u1ec1u \u0111au kh\u00f4\u0309. \u0110\u00f4i khi, n\u00f4\u0303i \u0111au r\u00e2\u0301t bu\u00f4\u0301t, r\u1ea5t cay \u0111\u1eafng. \u0110au kh\u00f4\u0309 la\u0300 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00ea\u0301 d\u00e2\u0303n chu\u0301ng ta va\u0300o s\u00e2u h\u01a1n trong s\u01b0\u0323 k\u00ea\u0301t hi\u00ea\u0323p v\u01a1\u0301i Thi\u00ean Chu\u0301a. \u0110\u00f4\u0301i v\u01a1\u0301i ba\u0300 Anna, ca\u0301i ch\u00ea\u0301t cu\u0309a ch\u00f4\u0300ng ba\u0300 \u0111\u01b0a ba\u0300 \u0111\u00ea\u0301n vi\u00ea\u0323c ti\u0300m ki\u00ea\u0301m \u0111\u01a1\u0300i s\u00f4\u0301ng t\u00e2m linh trong m\u00f4\u0323t ca\u0301ch th\u01b0\u0301c s\u00e2u xa h\u01a1n.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00e2\u0300u nguy\u00ea\u0323n la\u0300 quan tro\u0323ng nh\u00e2\u0301t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd. Nh\u1edd c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i gia\u0300 co\u0301 th\u00ea\u0309 tr\u01a1\u0309 n\u00ean m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i chi\u00eam ni\u00ea\u0323m. M\u00f4\u0323t ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i gia\u0300 n\u0103\u0300m tr\u00ean gi\u01b0\u01a1\u0300ng b\u00ea\u0323nh nh\u01a1\u0300 c\u00e2\u0300u nguy\u00ea\u0323n co\u0301 th\u00ea\u0309 \u00f4m tro\u0323n toa\u0300n th\u00ea\u0309 th\u00ea\u0301 gi\u01a1\u0301i. Gi\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 y\u1ebfu b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt v\u1eeba l\u00e0 th\u1eadp gi\u00e1 v\u1eeba l\u00e0 b\u00e0n th\u1edd: l\u00e0 th\u1eadp gi\u00e1 v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao ni\u00ean n\u1eb1m li\u1ec7t gi\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u00f3ng \u0111inh tr\u00ean th\u1eadp gi\u00e1, v\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7i \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n di chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa, m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Gi\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ec7nh c\u0169ng l\u00e0 b\u00e0n th\u1edd tr\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 hy l\u1ec5 l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh th\u00e2n x\u00e1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n gi\u00e0 y\u1ebfu v\u00e0 t\u01b0 t\u1ebf c\u0169ng l\u00e0 b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn d\u00e2ng nh\u1eefng \u0111au kh\u1ed5 do b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt g\u00e2y ra cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh, Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. Gi\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ec7nh nh\u01b0 c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o thi\u00ean \u0111\u00e0ng, n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd d\u00f9ng th\u1eddi gian n\u1eb1m tr\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ebft hi\u1ec7p v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c Th\u01b0\u01a1ng Kh\u00f3 c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng m\u1ebfn v\u00e0 trong t\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng cho vi\u1ec7c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa di\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

d-Tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho vi\u1ec7c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa di\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Hi\u1ebfn ch\u1ebf \u201cVui M\u1eebng v\u00e0 Hy V\u1ecdng\u201d n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cTr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft, b\u00ed \u1ea9n v\u1ec1 th\u00e2n ph\u1eadn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00ean cao t\u1edbi t\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9\u201d (s\u1ed1 18). T\u00e2m tr\u00ed con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n n\u00f3 v\u1edbi n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i v\u00e0 b\u1ea5p b\u00eanh, hay khi\u1ebfp s\u1ee3 t\u1ed9t c\u00f9ng. Ch\u00fang ta xem c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng n\u1ed5i. Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 run s\u1ee3 ch\u1ea3y m\u1ed3 h\u00f4i m\u00e1u tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u1ecbu ch\u1ebft. Nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00fang ta, Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 \u201cgi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t nh\u1eefng ai v\u00ec s\u1ee3 ch\u1ebft m\u00e0 su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng n\u00f4 l\u1ec7\u201d (Dt 2, 15). N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft, th\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 t\u00ean kh\u1ee7ng b\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta n\u1eefa nh\u01b0 \u0110\u1ee9c H\u1ed3ng y Basil Hume \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft trong cu\u1ed1n \u201cM\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m Th\u1eadp gi\u00e1\u201d nh\u01b0 sau: \u201cC\u00e1i ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb th\u00f9 kinh kh\u1ee7ng cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi ch\u00fang ta h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ea1n h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00e1i ch\u1ebft th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn n\u00f3. C\u00e1i ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 l\u00fd nh\u1ea5t, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh to\u00e0n. C\u00e1i ch\u1ebft \u00e1m \u1ea3nh ch\u00fang ta, khi ch\u00fang ta xem n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh \u0111i v\u00e0o h\u01b0 v\u00f4, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ra n\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn n\u01a1i c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u1ef1c\u201d.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00e1i ch\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh tr\u00ean d\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 c\u1eeda ng\u00f5 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n. Ch\u00ednh trong n\u01a1i n\u00e0y m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. Ch\u00ednh \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i ch\u1ec9 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o trong Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Ch\u00ednh trong thi\u00ean \u0111\u00e0ng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i trong Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, v\u00ec nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi th\u00e1nh Augustino \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: \u201cCh\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean h\u1ed3n con cho Ch\u00faa, v\u00e0 h\u1ed3n con s\u1ebd b\u0103n kho\u0103n thao th\u1ee9c m\u00e3i cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngh\u1ec9 y\u00ean trong Ch\u00faa\u201d.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a l\u1ecbch s\u1eed nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 l\u00e0m con c\u00e1i Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi cao c\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, trong \u0111\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, trao ban v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00e1ch tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh l\u00e0m n\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Trong Kinh Th\u00e1nh c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb cao ni\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 xin Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa cho m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ebft v\u1edbi n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi t\u01b0\u01a1i vui m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n tr\u00ean g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eb7t. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ee5 gi\u00e0 Simeon: \u201cMu\u00f4n l\u1ea1y Ch\u00faa, gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y theo l\u1eddi Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ee9a, xin \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i t\u1edb n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an b\u00ecnh ra \u0111i. V\u00ec ch\u00ednh m\u1eaft con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y \u01a1n c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ed9 Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh s\u1eb5n cho mu\u00f4n d\u00e2n\u201d (Lc 2, 29-31).<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Khi ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang gi\u00e0 \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 trao ban, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 trao ban tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 v\u00e0 t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 trao t\u1eb7ng ch\u00ednh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, th\u00ec tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n \u201cgi\u1edd\u201d m\u00e0 th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i trong th\u01b0 g\u1eedi cho Tim\u00f4th\u00ea: \u201cC\u00f2n t\u00f4i, t\u00f4i s\u1eafp ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed5 m\u00e1u ra l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 t\u1ebf, \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1edd t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i ra \u0111i. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea5u trong cu\u1ed9c thi \u0111\u1ea5u cao \u0111\u1eb9p, \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea1y h\u1ebft ch\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1eef v\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m tin\u201d (2 Tm 4: 6-7).<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Trong a\u0301nh sa\u0301ng cu\u0309a l\u01a1\u0300i Ch\u00faa, ca\u0301i ch\u00ea\u0301t kh\u00f4ng co\u0300n la\u0300 m\u00f4\u0323t l\u01a1\u0300i k\u00ea\u0301t a\u0301n, m\u00f4\u0323t ca\u0301i k\u00ea\u0301t v\u00f4 nghi\u0303a cu\u0309a cu\u00f4\u0323c \u0111\u01a1\u0300i, no\u0301 \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c m\u0103\u0323c kha\u0309i la\u0300 m\u00f4\u0323t th\u01a1\u0300i gian cu\u0309a hy vo\u0323ng: ni\u00ea\u0300m hy vo\u0323ng ch\u0103\u0301c ch\u0103\u0301n va\u0300 \u0111i\u0301ch th\u01b0\u0323c cu\u0309a vi\u00ea\u0323c \u0111\u00ea\u0301n g\u0103\u0323p g\u01a1\u0303 Chu\u0301a di\u00ea\u0323n \u0111\u00f4\u0301i di\u00ea\u0323n: \u201cXin d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang con \u0111\u1ebfm th\u00e1ng ng\u00e0y m\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng, ng\u00f5 h\u1ea7u t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4n ngoan\u201d (Tv 90, 12).<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Va\u0300 Kinh Tha\u0301nh nh\u0103\u0301c chu\u0301ng ta ha\u0303y nhi\u0300n l\u00ean Thi\u00ean Chu\u0301a trong su\u00f4\u0301t cu\u00f4\u0323c \u0111\u01a1\u0300i, vi\u0300 Nga\u0300i la\u0300 mu\u0323c \u0111i\u0301ch cu\u0309a cu\u00f4\u0323c ha\u0300nh h\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ean c\u00f5i \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y cu\u0309a chu\u0301ng ta, va\u0300 \u0111\u0103\u0323c bi\u00ea\u0323t trong lu\u0301c s\u01a1\u0323 ha\u0303i khi tu\u00f4\u0309i gia\u0300 v\u00e0 c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft \u0111ang \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng trong h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac tr\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea7y: \u201c\u00d4ng Abraham s\u1ed1ng th\u1ecd m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m b\u1ea3y m\u01b0\u01a1i l\u0103m tu\u1ed5i r\u1ed3i t\u1eaft th\u1edf. \u00d4ng qua \u0111\u1eddi khi \u0111\u00e3 cao ni\u00ean, \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n; v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ec1 sum h\u1ecdp v\u1edbi gia ti\u00ean\u201d (St 25, 7-8).<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110oa\u0323n Kinh Tha\u0301nh na\u0300y r\u00e2\u0301t th\u01a1\u0300i s\u01b0\u0323 trong th\u01a1\u0300i \u0111a\u0323i chu\u0301ng ta. Th\u00ea\u0301 gi\u01a1\u0301i \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111a\u0323i m\u00e2\u0301t \u0111i ca\u0301i nhi\u0300n v\u00ea\u0300 s\u01b0\u0323 th\u00e2\u0323t li\u00ean quan \u0111\u00ea\u0301n y\u0301 nghi\u0303a va\u0300 gia\u0301 tri\u0323 cu\u0309a cu\u00f4\u0323c s\u00f4\u0301ng con ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i, ma\u0300 Thi\u00ean Chu\u0301a \u0111a\u0303 ghi d\u00e2\u0301u trong l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m con ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i khi ta\u0323o d\u01b0\u0323ng ho\u0323, va\u0300 cu\u0300ng v\u01a1\u0301i no\u0301 la\u0300 y\u0301 nghi\u0303a tro\u0323n ve\u0323n cu\u0309a tu\u00f4\u0309i gia\u0300 va\u0300 ca\u0301i ch\u00ea\u0301t. Bi\u0323 t\u00ea co\u0301ng b\u01a1\u0309i nh\u01b0\u0303ng hi\u0300nh a\u0309nh v\u00ea\u0300 ca\u0301i ch\u00ea\u0301t \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c tri\u0300nh ba\u0300y b\u01a1\u0309i ca\u0301c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u00ea\u0323n truy\u00ea\u0300n th\u00f4ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, con ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i nga\u0300y nay la\u0300m mo\u0323i s\u01b0\u0323 co\u0301 th\u00ea\u0309 \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c \u0111\u00ea\u0309 tra\u0301nh ne\u0301 th\u01b0\u0323c ta\u0323i na\u0300y, m\u00f4\u0323t th\u01b0\u0323c ta\u0323i la\u0300m cho ho\u0323 lo \u00e2u va\u0300 s\u01a1\u0323 ha\u0303i. Nh\u01b0ng ca\u0301i ch\u00ea\u0301t kh\u00f4ng th\u00ea\u0309 tra\u0301nh \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c. Con Thi\u00ean Chu\u0301a \u0111a\u0303 tr\u01a1\u0309 tha\u0300nh con ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i, va\u0300 \u0111a\u0309o ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c y\u0301 nghi\u0303a cu\u0309a ca\u0301i ch\u00ea\u0301t: Nga\u0300i m\u01a1\u0309 ra ca\u0301nh c\u01b0\u0309a hy vo\u0323ng cho nh\u01b0\u0303ng ai tin t\u01b0\u01a1\u0309ng va\u0300o Nga\u0300i: \u201c\u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu li\u1ec1n ph\u00e1n: “Ch\u00ednh Th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. Ai tin v\u00e0o Th\u1ea7y, th\u00ec d\u00f9 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft, c\u0169ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng. Ai s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 tin v\u00e0o Th\u1ea7y, s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ebft. Ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 tin th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng?” (Ga 11, 25-26).<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5c sinh l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao ni\u00ean g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 hy sinh \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng v\u1edbi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho ng\u00e0y hi\u1ec7p nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa tr\u00ean thi\u00ean qu\u1ed1c. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao ni\u00ean c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn ra s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa n\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng anh em \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe Ch\u00faa n\u00f3i trong ng\u00e0y sau h\u1ebft c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh: \u201cN\u00e0o nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb Cha Ta ch\u00fac ph\u00fac, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edfng V\u01b0\u01a1ng Qu\u1ed1c d\u1ecdn s\u1eb5n cho c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u01a1i ngay t\u1eeb thu\u1edf t\u1ea1o thi\u00ean l\u1eadp \u0111\u1ecba. V\u00ec x\u01b0a Ta \u0111\u00f3i, c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u01a1i \u0111\u00e3 cho \u0103n; Ta kh\u00e1t, c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u01a1i \u0111\u00e3 cho u\u1ed1ng; Ta l\u00e0 kh\u00e1ch l\u1ea1, c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u01a1i \u0111\u00e3 ti\u1ebfp r\u01b0\u1edbc; Ta tr\u1ea7n tru\u1ed3ng, c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u01a1i \u0111\u00e3 cho m\u1eb7c; Ta \u0111au y\u1ebfu, c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u01a1i \u0111\u00e3 th\u0103m vi\u1ebfng; Ta ng\u1ed3i t\u00f9, c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u01a1i \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ecfi han\u201d (Mt 25, 34-36).<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

K\u1ebft:<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u00e0 \u0111i l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i hay l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng? N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t cho b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai, b\u1edfi v\u00ec c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi n\u1eb1m \u1edf m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta. T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 th\u01b0 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t Ph\u00ear\u00f4 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cThi\u00ean Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 \u0110\u1ea5ng kh\u00f4ng v\u1ecb n\u1ec3 ai, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ee9 theo c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 x\u00e9t x\u1eed. V\u1eady n\u1ebfu anh em g\u1ecdi Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 Cha, th\u00ec anh em h\u00e3y \u0111em l\u00f2ng k\u00ednh s\u1ee3 m\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi l\u1eef kh\u00e1ch n\u00e0y\u201d (1 Pr 1,17). Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi nh\u00ecn cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh h\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi Cha tr\u00ean tr\u1eddi. Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ebft, nh\u01b0ng cho s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi. Tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 l\u00e0 ch\u1eb7ng cu\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ee9c tin, l\u00e0 h\u1ed3ng \u00e2n cao qu\u00ed Ch\u00faa ban cho ch\u00fang ta, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 v\u1edbi \u0110\u1ea5ng l\u00e0 Cha lu\u00f4n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cho ch\u00fang ta. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i qu\u00e1, v\u00ec Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd b\u1ecf r\u01a1i ch\u00fang ta trong b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0o.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, trong vi\u1ec7c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho ng\u00e0y sau h\u1ebft c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft d\u00f9ng th\u1eddi gi\u1edd hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 chu to\u00e0n \u00fd mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Cha, nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu n\u00f3i: \u201cCh\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng ai thi h\u00e0nh \u00fd mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a Cha Th\u1ea7y, m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0o N\u01b0\u1edbc Tr\u1eddi m\u00e0 th\u00f4i\u201d (Mt 7, 21). Nh\u01b0ng \u00fd mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 qua c\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u0103n c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i: \u201cNg\u01b0\u01a1i ph\u1ea3i y\u00eau m\u1ebfn \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa, Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u01a1i, h\u1ebft l\u00f2ng, h\u1ebft linh h\u1ed3n v\u00e0 h\u1ebft tr\u00ed kh\u00f4n ng\u01b0\u01a1i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u0103n quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u0103n th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t. C\u00f2n \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u0103n th\u1ee9 hai, c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u0103n \u1ea5y, l\u00e0: ng\u01b0\u01a1i ph\u1ea3i y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n c\u1eadn nh\u01b0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh\u201d (Mt 22, 37-39). <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Qua l\u1eddi Ch\u00faa, l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c th\u00e1nh v\u00e0 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 s\u1ee9 v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao ni\u00ean. Ch\u00ednh Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, c\u00e1c th\u00e1nh, v\u00e0 Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i c\u00f9ng m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi ch\u00fang ta t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng m\u1ecdi th\u1eddi gian, \u00e2n hu\u1ec7, \u0111\u1eb7c s\u1ee7ng c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 thi h\u00e0nh s\u1ee9 v\u1ee5 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c giao ph\u00f3 l\u00e0 truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9c tin, kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb, d\u00e2ng nh\u1eefng \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 hy sinh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh, Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 d\u00f9ng th\u1eddi gi\u1edd hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho m\u00ecnh cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 v\u1edbi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa di\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n trong \u201cgi\u1edd ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf th\u1ebf gian m\u00e0 v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa Cha\u201d (Ga (13, 1). Amen.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Lm. Montfort Ph\u1ea1m Qu\u1ed1c Huy\u00ean O. Cist.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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Chia s\u1ebb th\u00e1ng 3- 2022<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00e1c b\u00ed quy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac: 09 \u2013 <\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span>B\u00ed quy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c v\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u duy nh\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a anh ch\u1ecb l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh hai anh ch\u1ecb v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng giao \u0111\u00f4i l\u1ee9a c\u1ee7a anh ch\u1ecb.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Danh ti\u1ebfng c\u1ee7a John v\u00e0 Amelia Rocchio \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed5i l\u00ean tr\u00ean m\u1eb7t b\u00e1o ch\u00ed khi h\u1ecd m\u1eebng k\u1ec9 ni\u1ec7m h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1m m\u01b0\u01a1i hai n\u0103m. \u00d4ng b\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng t\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 Providence, Rhode Island. \u00d4ng 101 tu\u1ed5i, v\u00e0 b\u00e0 99 tu\u1ed5i. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd m\u1eebng l\u1ec5 k\u1ec9 ni\u1ec7m h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng k\u1ebft h\u00f4n l\u00e2u n\u0103m nh\u1ea5t \u1edf Hoa K\u1ef3. Khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 b\u00ed quy\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng th\u1ecd nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, John tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u201cs\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn\u201d.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00f3i m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi v\u1eafn g\u1ecdn nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 John \u0111\u00e3 n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00ed quy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c v\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian. B\u1ea1n th\u1eed h\u00ecnh dung t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 n\u0103m th\u00e1ng tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c v\u00e0 c\u00e1c giai \u0111o\u1ea1n cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 \u0111i qua. Sau \u0111\u00e2y ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0a ra v\u00e0i \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ed1c th\u1eddi gian:<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 s\u00f4i n\u1ed5i, ve v\u00e3n t\u00e1n t\u1ec9nh, run r\u1ea9y t\u1ecf t\u00ecnh, r\u1ed3i h\u1eb9n \u01b0\u1edbc.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Giai \u0111o\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng chung m\u1edbi m\u1ebb c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Chuy\u1ec3n ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eddi m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1edbi con th\u01a1 d\u1ea1i.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Khi con c\u00e1i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1edbn kh\u00f4n s\u1eafp \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean, cha m\u1eb9 chuy\u1ec3n vai tr\u00f2 t\u1eeb l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng con c\u00e1i sang th\u00e0nh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ebfn th\u1eddi k\u00ec hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 nhau nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n h\u1eefu, khi t\u1ed5 \u1ea5m gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u00ean v\u1eafng v\u1ebb h\u01a1n, John v\u00e0 Amelia b\u00e2y gi\u1edd l\u1ea1i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 nhau.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Giai \u0111o\u1ea1n l\u00e3o ni\u00ean, ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3n v\u00e0 m\u1eebng c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean ch\u00e1u ch\u1eaft n\u1ed9i ngo\u1ea1i.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u1eddi c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe, h\u1ecd ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng y\u1ebfu \u0111i v\u00ec tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0, ph\u1ea3i quan t\u00e2m ch\u0103m s\u00f3c s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng th\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ngh\u0129a t\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng h\u1eefu gi\u00fap nhau chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb k\u1ebft th\u00fac cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi trong an b\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd tr\u1ea3i qua nhi\u1ec1u giai \u0111o\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, d\u1ec5 th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng John v\u00e0 Amelia \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00edt l\u00e0 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u. Th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 r\u01b0\u1ee3u vang v\u1eady, n\u00f3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i, v\u00e0 ch\u00edn d\u1ea7n theo th\u1eddi gian. V\u00e0 th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Thu\u1edf ban \u0111\u1ea7u, khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i \u201canh s\u1ebd y\u00eau em \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi\u201d nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd \u1ea5y th\u1ed1t ra t\u1eeb con tim b\u1ea1n th\u1eadt d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng v\u00e0 say \u0111\u1eafm. Nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y theo th\u1eddi gian ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u thay \u0111\u1ed5i. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, d\u00e1ng v\u1ebb th\u1ec3 l\u00ed thay \u0111\u1ed5i. T\u00f4i v\u1eabn th\u1ea5p l\u00f9n, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f3c \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ee5ng d\u1ea7n \u0111i nhi\u1ec1u kho\u1ea3ng t\u1eeb n\u0103m t\u00f4i ba l\u0103m tu\u1ed5i. Anita tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 c\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1ed9t anh ch\u00e0ng h\u00f3i nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i b\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2u, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4 ta \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi c\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng v\u00ec m\u00e1i t\u00f3c \u0111\u1eb9p b\u1ec1nh b\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a anh ta nh\u01b0 thu\u1edf ban \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u00fd mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 s\u1edf th\u00edch. Khi c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb t\u00f4i t\u1eebng r\u1ea5t th\u00edch b\u00f3ng ch\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n quan t\u00e2m ch\u00fat n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ebfn n\u00f3 n\u1eefa. L\u1ea7n h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u00e0 \u0111i xem m\u1ed9t tr\u1eadn \u0111\u1ea5u b\u00f3ng ch\u00e0y. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 th\u00edch nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111i \u0103n \u1edf m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u01b0a th\u00edch.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ea3 t\u00e2m t\u00ednh m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1ee3 b\u1ea1n d\u1ea7n d\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng \u0111\u1eb1m th\u1eafm h\u01a1n x\u01b0a, ho\u1eb7c c\u00f4 ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n hay lo \u00e2u. Ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n nay c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t \u0111i v\u1ebb t\u01b0\u01a1i t\u1eafn, tinh anh c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi trai tr\u1ebb v\u00ec l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u. Ho\u1eb7c gi\u1ea3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb nghi\u1ec7n ng\u1eadp v\u00e0 n\u00e0ng s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 d\u1ef1 li\u1ec7u tr\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

L\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 lo nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con c\u00e1i c\u0169ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe c\u0169ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i. \u0110au kh\u1ed5 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i. \u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ee9c tin s\u1ebd l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n hay cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n qua \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ebd l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i. V\u00e0 danh s\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00f2n d\u00e0i. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1i c\u00e3i. Ch\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng th\u1ebf. C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m l\u00e0m thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap cho h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u00e0 c\u00f2n tri\u1ec3n n\u1edf t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p xuy\u00ean qua nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed5i thay \u0111\u00f3? S\u1ed1ng b\u00ed quy\u1ebft tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c v\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian. Hay n\u00f3i v\u1eafn t\u1eaft nh\u01b0 hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng nh\u00e0 Rocchio, bi\u1ebft ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f9ng nhau tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00e0y. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u duy nh\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh hai b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi hai b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng \u0111ang thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n ch\u00f3ng m\u1eb7t, l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n, v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng tan v\u1ee1. Th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh \u0111ang thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u00e0i th\u01a1 n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a Walt Whitman:<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Anh t\u1ef1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh ch\u0103ng?<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u1eea, th\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, anh t\u1ef1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn \u0111\u1ea5y.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00ec tr\u00e1i tim anh m\u00eanh m\u00f4ng bao la ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a. V\u00ec s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n hay kh\u00f4ng. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i, v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

V\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i di\u1ec5n bi\u1ebfn t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y th\u00e1ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, trong linh h\u1ed3n, v\u00e0 trong nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 quan tr\u1ecdng \u01b0u ti\u00ean lo toan c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n. Sau h\u1ebft, c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i quan t\u00e2m, nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m, vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda, con c\u00e1i, ti\u1ec1n nong \u0111\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111ang tr\u1ea3i qua. T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 v\u00e0 l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng, Sheena Iyengar, r\u1ea5t hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e0y, n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cT\u00f4i bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t hay ch\u00fa \u00fd b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00e1ch chi li. M\u1ed7i khi th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh t\u00f4i ngh\u0129, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y, hay l\u00e0m g\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft, v\u00e0 tr\u00ean c\u01a1 s\u1edf t\u1ef1 \u00fd th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng ai kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y, v\u00e0 l\u00e0m \u0111\u00fang y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u2026 ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p v\u00e0 phong ph\u00fa nh\u01b0 c\u1ee7a ta v\u1eady\u201d.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0, b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1edbi th\u1eddi gian, v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quan t\u00e2m, ch\u00fa \u00fd. M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng chia s\u1ebb kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf cho ta bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Khi Maureen k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi Ken, c\u00f4 bi\u1ebft anh v\u1ed1n nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00f4 y\u00eau anh v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap anh cai nghi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 h\u1eb9n h\u00f2. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, c\u00f4 tin r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n cho anh m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 Ch\u00faa s\u1ebd ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh ch\u1ee9ng nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u c\u1ee7a anh.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Trong m\u01b0\u1eddi l\u0103m n\u0103m, trong khi nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y b\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ee9a con, Maureen ki\u00ean tr\u00ec c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n cho Ken th\u1eafng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eadt nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u. C\u00f4 d\u1ea7n quen v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c lo toan cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n Ken h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 thi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng n\u00f3i l\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd d\u00f9 v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i qua ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh nghi\u1ec7n ng\u1eadp c\u1ee7a Ken.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Sau c\u00f9ng, sau ng\u00e0y k\u1ec9 ni\u1ec7m m\u01b0\u1eddi l\u0103m n\u0103m h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i, Ken b\u00e0y t\u1ecf \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n t\u1eeb b\u1ecf d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t vi\u1ec7c u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u v\u00e0 cai nghi\u1ec7n. Maureen r\u1ea5t m\u1eebng v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe tin \u1ea5y t\u1eeb mi\u1ec7ng anh.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3, l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y Ken \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1eef l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a. Anh \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, anh g\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 tham v\u1ea5n v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean tham d\u1ef1 nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a Hi\u1ec7p h\u1ed9i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi Nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u V\u00f4 danh (Alcoholics Anonymous \u2013 A.A.), v\u00e0 nh\u1edd \u01a1n Ch\u00faa gi\u00fap anh d\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed3i ph\u1ee5c. Trong su\u1ed1t n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean cai r\u01b0\u1ee3u, con c\u00e1i anh quen d\u1ea7n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01a1n. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u1edfi s\u1eafc.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng Maureen th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng quen \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. M\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e1m th\u00e1ng sau cai nghi\u1ec7n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, anh v\u00e0 Maureen li h\u00f4n. N\u00f3i v\u1eafn t\u1eaft, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng bi\u1ebft h\u1eb9n h\u00f2, k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng chung v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7n. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh. Ken \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Maureen th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng………..thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f3. Khi \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng Ch\u00faa ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e0m thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi, th\u00ec ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh th\u1eadm ch\u00ed tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n h\u01a1n. Flannery O\u2019Connor n\u00f3i r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 kh\u00f4n ngoan: \u201cTo\u00e0n th\u1ec3 b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta quy\u1ebft li\u1ec7t kh\u00e1ng c\u1ef1 l\u1ea1i \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng, b\u1edfi v\u00ec \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u00fang ta, m\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00ec l\u00e0m ta \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn\u201d.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

V\u1eady b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3n l\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u1ea5y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, thay \u0111\u1ed5i s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra n\u01a1i m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 trong cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u1ea5y l\u00e0 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn?<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f9ng nhau thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 can \u0111\u1ea3m v\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn. S\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Nh\u01b0ng xin nh\u1edb cho r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111ang thay \u0111\u1ed5i, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng hai chi\u1ec1u, v\u00e0 tr\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f9ng \u0111i v\u1edbi nhau. Khi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 \u201cc\u00e1ch ri\u00eang r\u1ebd\u201d, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft ngay r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00f9ng nhau. Hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ed1ng s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn. \u0110\u00f2i h\u1ecfi th\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u, m\u00e0 \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng th\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 l\u00eca xa.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn c\u00f3 ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u s\u1ed1ng trong Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n t\u1eeb l\u00fac b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eeda t\u1ed9i. Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i s\u01a1 khai trong th\u1ebf k\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef c\u1edfi tr\u1ea7n tr\u1ee5i khi b\u01b0\u1edbc xu\u1ed1ng gi\u1ebfng n\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1eeda t\u1ed9i, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 t\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u01b0ng cho vi\u1ec7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1edfi b\u1ecf con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169. Khi b\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00ean t\u1eeb gi\u1ebfng r\u1eeda t\u1ed9i h\u1ecd m\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m \u00e1o tr\u1eafng tinh, bi\u1ec3u tr\u01b0ng cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi trong \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ea3n-sao-t\u1ed1t-nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n m\u1eb7c chi\u1ebfc \u00e1o ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi b\u1ea1n m\u1eb7c l\u1ea5y \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 b\u1edfi ph\u00e9p r\u1eeda t\u1ed9i.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc cho bi\u1ebft nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c tha th\u1ee9. N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, ch\u00ednh v\u00ec Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, n\u00ean Ng\u00e0i c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng l\u1eabn nhau c\u1ea3 khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Xem v\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 \u00f4ng Simon Ph\u00ear\u00f4 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1ed1t. H\u00e3y ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u00e0y, k\u1ebb s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00e1nh Ph\u00ear\u00f4. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0y th\u00f4i, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng l\u1eabn nhau trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 cho nhau li\u00ean k\u1ebft l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t. Ch\u00fang ta nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i:<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

1) Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu g\u1ecdi Ph\u00ear\u00f4 b\u1ecf ngh\u1ec1 l\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00e1 v\u00e0 \u201c\u0111i theo\u201d Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho \u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb l\u01b0\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ph\u00ear\u00f4 v\u00e2ng theo \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu t\u1ee9c th\u00ec. (Mc 1,16-20)<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

2) Ph\u00ear\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu ch\u1eefa b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3 \u00f4ng l\u00e0nh b\u1ec7nh. (Mc 1,29-31)<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

3) Ph\u00ear\u00f4 \u0111\u00edch th\u00e2n ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng phi th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt, l\u00e0m ph\u00e9p l\u1ea1 nu\u00f4i \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng d\u00e2n ch\u00fang, gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y d\u00e2n ch\u00fang, tr\u00e1ch m\u1eafng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi Bi\u1ec7t ph\u00e1i. \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c l\u1ef1c quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn Ph\u00ear\u00f4.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

4) Ph\u00ear\u00f4 tuy\u00ean x\u01b0ng \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu l\u00e0 \u0110\u1ea5ng M\u00easia khi Ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecfi \u00f4ng \u201ccon b\u1ea3o Th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 ai?\u201d R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 \u00f4ng v\u1eabn quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu. Ph\u00ear\u00f4 bi\u1ebft \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu l\u00e0 ai. (Mc 8,27-30)<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

5) M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 Ph\u00ear\u00f4 bi\u1ebft \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu l\u00e0 ai, nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng v\u1eabn tr\u00e1ch c\u1ee9 Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c m\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec7 r\u1eb1ng Con Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu ch\u1ebft v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i ph\u1ee5c sinh. H\u00e3y nghe nh\u00e9: Ph\u00ear\u00f4 tr\u00e1ch c\u1ee9 \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u chuy\u1ec7n \u1ea5y ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta t\u01b0\u1edfng ng\u00e0i hi\u1ec3u. \u0110\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3t \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu m\u1eafng Ph\u00ear\u00f4, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u201cSatan, h\u00e3y lui ra \u0111\u00e0ng sau Th\u1ea7y. V\u00ec t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a anh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d. (Mc 8,31-33)<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

6) Khi \u1ea5y Ph\u00ear\u00f4 ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu bi\u1ebfn h\u00ecnh tr\u00ean n\u00fai, c\u00f3 \u00calia v\u00e0 M\u00f4s\u00ea hi\u1ec7n ra \u0111\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea1o v\u1edbi Ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u00d4ng \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb d\u1ef1ng c\u00e1c c\u00e1i l\u1ec1u cho c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea5ng ng\u1ee5 l\u1ea1i tr\u00ean n\u00fai cao thay v\u00ec tr\u1edf xu\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng nh\u00e2n gian. (Mc 9,2-8)<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

7) Ph\u00ear\u00f4 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t l\u00fac \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu \u0111i v\u00e0o th\u00e0nh Gi\u00earusalem, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi thanh t\u1ea9y \u0110\u1ec1n th\u1edd, v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb \u0111i theo Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eafp b\u1ecb gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 th\u1eddi sau c\u00f9ng. \u00d4ng tham d\u1ef1 b\u1eefa \u0103n sau c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa trong c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng tr\u00ean l\u1ea7u, khi Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu \u0103n v\u1edbi c\u00e1c m\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec7 Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea7n cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng. (Mc 14,12-25)<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

8) \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu b\u00e1o tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1edbi Ph\u00ear\u00f4 \u00f4ng s\u1ebd ch\u1ed1i Th\u1ea7y. Ph\u00ear\u00f4 b\u00e1c b\u1ecf l\u1eddi Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n n\u00f3i \u00f4ng s\u1ebd s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u1ebft v\u1edbi Th\u1ea7y. \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu bi\u1ebft ch\u1eafc Ph\u00ear\u00f4 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u01b0ng Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi kho\u00e1c l\u00e1c c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng. (Mc 14,27-31)<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

9) \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u1edbi Ph\u00ear\u00f4 c\u1ea3 khi \u1edf trong v\u01b0\u1eddn Gi\u00eats\u00eamani l\u00fac Ch\u00faa s\u1eafp b\u1ecb b\u1eaft \u0111em \u0111i gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 truy\u1ec1n d\u1ea1y ph\u1ea3i t\u1ec9nh th\u1ee9c, Ph\u00ear\u00f4 v\u1eabn ng\u1ee7 thi\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh th\u1ee9c \u00f4ng ba l\u1ea7n. (Mc 14,32-42)<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

10) V\u00e0o th\u1eddi cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, Ph\u00ear\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f4ng khai ch\u1ed1i Th\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t m\u00e0 ba l\u1ea7n. (Mc 14,66-72)<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

11) Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y Ph\u00ear\u00f4 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u c\u1ea3 khi Ch\u00faa b\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3ng \u0111inh, ch\u1ebft, v\u00e0 mai t\u00e1ng trong m\u1ed3. (Mc 15,33 \u2013 16,8)<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec? R\u1ea5t \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n: Ph\u00ear\u00f4 l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u01b0 con n\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1ee7y tri\u1ec1u l\u00fac l\u00ean l\u00fac xu\u1ed1ng. \u00d4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. Nh\u01b0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta v\u1eady. Ph\u00ear\u00f4 t\u1ecf ra l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi. \u00d4ng c\u0169ng cho th\u1ea5y con ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh khi kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Th\u1ea7y v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ch\u1ed1i Th\u1ea7y. \u00d4ng cho th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn kh\u00f4n ngoan v\u00e0 tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c, hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu l\u00e0 ai. Nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng t\u1ecf ra s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ed7 h\u1ed5ng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn khi n\u00f3i v\u1edbi \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu r\u1eb1ng Con Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu ch\u1ebft. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng n\u00f3i l\u00e0 \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu v\u1eabn \u0111\u1ee9ng b\u00ean \u00f4ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng t\u1eeb b\u1ecf Ph\u00ear\u00f4 ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng \u0111u\u1ed5i \u00f4ng ra kh\u1ecfi h\u00e0ng ng\u0169 m\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec7. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng \u1ea5y c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u00ear\u00f4. \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu trung th\u00e0nh; Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn. Lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n, cho t\u1edbi t\u1eadn c\u00f9ng. V\u00ec Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa th\u00ec ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Cho d\u00f9 \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu bi\u1ebft Ph\u00ear\u00f4 s\u1ebd ch\u1ed1i Th\u1ea7y, nh\u01b0ng Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn \u0111em \u00f4ng \u0111i theo v\u00e0o v\u01b0\u1eddn C\u00e2y D\u1ea7u. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u1edbi Ph\u00ear\u00f4. V\u00e0 khi Ph\u00ear\u00f4 ng\u00e3 g\u1ee5c v\u00e0 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng sau khi ch\u1ed1i Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu ba l\u1ea7n, Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu \u0110\u1ea5ng Ph\u1ee5c sinh c\u0169ng tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t hi\u1ec7n ra v\u1edbi \u00f4ng.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Cho \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eadn c\u00f9ng, \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu lu\u00f4n ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u1edbi Ph\u00ear\u00f4. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean h\u01a1n h\u1ebft, \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111\u1eb7t \u00f4ng trong vai tr\u00f2 th\u1ee7 l\u00e3nh c\u00e1c m\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec7 Ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u1edbi Ph\u00ear\u00f4 l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ea7n kh\u00e1c. C\u1ea3 khi Ph\u00ear\u00f4 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea1c \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng xa nh\u1ea5t, Ch\u00faa c\u0169ng n\u00f3i l\u00ean l\u1eddi cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1eddi tha th\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a \u01a1n c\u1ee9u chu\u1ed9c.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Khi Ph\u00ear\u00f4 ch\u00f9n ch\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3, Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu v\u1eabn c\u00f3 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. Khi Ph\u00ear\u00f4 tr\u00e1ch c\u1ee9 ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ed1i Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng \u00f4ng. V\u00e0 sau c\u00f9ng, Ch\u00faa tha th\u1ee9 cho Ph\u00ear\u00f4 l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn. Anh ch\u1ecb em h\u00e3y y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng l\u1eabn nhau v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 cho nhau.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb, ng\u00e0y n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y kh\u00e1c, n\u0103m n\u00e0y qua n\u0103m kh\u00e1c, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c thu\u1ed9c b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i ch\u00fang ta. Ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a anh khi n\u00e0ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i, d\u00f9 nh\u1ecf hay l\u1edbn, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ta r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c \u1ea5y m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. Tuy nhi\u00ean, v\u1edbi Th\u1ea7n Kh\u00ed Ch\u00faa, b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t bi\u1ebft ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn h\u01a1n, ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. S\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. T\u1ea1i sao \u01b0? B\u1edfi v\u00ec Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa th\u00ec ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn, v\u00ec Ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 T\u00ecnh Y\u00eau. Ch\u00ednh v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn l\u1ea1 l\u00f9ng m\u00e0 Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi Ph\u00ear\u00f4, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u, l\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i b\u00ed quy\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch. B\u1ea1n \u0111ang gi\u00fap cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi \u0111i v\u1ec1 Qu\u00ea tr\u1eddi v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng nh\u1eefng t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa mu\u1ed1n. \u201cB\u00e1c \u00e1i, hoan l\u1ea1c, b\u00ecnh an, nh\u1eabn nh\u1ee5c\u201d l\u00e0 hoa qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a Th\u1ea7n Kh\u00ed, theo Th\u01b0 Galata c\u1ee7a th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4. Trong Th\u01b0 \u00caph\u00eas\u00f4 4,1-2, th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4 n\u00f3i, \u201cT\u00f4i khuy\u00ean nh\u1ee7 anh em h\u00e3y s\u1ed1ng cho x\u1ee9ng v\u1edbi \u01a1n k\u00eau g\u1ecdi m\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 ban cho anh em. Anh em h\u00e3y \u0103n \u1edf th\u1eadt khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, hi\u1ec1n t\u1eeb v\u00e0 nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i; h\u00e3y l\u1ea5y t\u00ecnh b\u00e1c \u00e1i m\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng l\u1eabn nhau\u201d. Ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n thu\u1ed9c N\u01b0\u1edbc Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Khi b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n trong s\u1ef1 nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, anh \u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd tri\u1ec3n n\u1edf sinh nhi\u1ec1u hoa tr\u00e1i. V\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y s\u1ebd ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn h\u01a1n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh \u1ea5y cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea1n tri\u1ec3n n\u1edf phong ph\u00fa xuy\u00ean qua nh\u1eefng bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9ng trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, v\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed5i sao d\u1eddi hay con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed5i thay, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh lu\u00f4n thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ti\u1ebfn h\u00f3a. M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y \u0111i qua, tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c t\u0103ng d\u1ea7n, c\u00e1c giai \u0111o\u1ea1n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n chuy\u1ec3n ti\u1ebfp, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ta s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i nh\u01b0ng lu\u00f4n \u1edf trong vi\u1ec5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a ta. \u201cL\u1ea1y Ch\u00faa, xin d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang con \u0111\u1ebfm th\u00e1ng ng\u00e0y m\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng, ng\u00f5 h\u1ea7u t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4n ngoan\u201d (Tv 90,12). Ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n t\u00edch c\u1ef1c nh\u00ecn t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec s\u1eafp t\u1edbi Ch\u00faa s\u1ebd l\u00e0m, h\u01a1n l\u00e0 ph\u1eadt \u00fd v\u00ec v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh b\u00e9o ph\u00ec h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat ho\u1eb7c b\u00e2y gi\u1edd n\u00e0ng\/ch\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n th\u00edch c\u1ea3 nh\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n \u0111i d\u00e3 ngo\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 x\u01b0a n\u1eefa.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecb em h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng g\u1ea7n nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a Ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn. Vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u00ean nhau trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1edf ra t\u1eeb th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ch\u00fa \u00fd l\u1eafng nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. Th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u1eafng nghe, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd mau ch\u00f3ng th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, \u0111ang d\u1ea7n l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u00e0 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i ra sao. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ee1 ng\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u v\u00ec bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u1ea5y \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra. V\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u00ean li\u1ec7u nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

L\u1ea7n k\u1ec9 ni\u1ec7m sinh nh\u1eadt th\u1ee9 b\u1ed1n m\u01b0\u01a1i b\u1ed1n, t\u00f4i v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1o C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o. Flannery O\u2019Connor n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng \u201cAnh kh\u00f4ng gia nh\u1eadp Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o m\u00e0 anh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o\u201d. V\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 v\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c s\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea1i gi\u00e1o \u0111o\u00e0n H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh Th\u1ec7 ph\u1ea3n, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 d\u0129 nhi\u00ean t\u1ea1o ch\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e0m thay \u0111\u1ed5i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. (Xin xem chi ti\u1ebft quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chia s\u1ebb trong quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i Confessions of a Mega Church Pastor: How I discovered the Hidden Treasures of the Catholic Church).<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra nhi\u1ec1u x\u00e1o \u0111\u1ed9ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. Trong g\u1ea7n m\u01b0\u1eddi l\u0103m n\u0103m, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u01b0\u1eddng chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi Anita nh\u1eefng nghi v\u1ea5n, nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u, nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ee9c tin c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. C\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t \u00fd ngh\u0129a tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ee9c tin n\u00e0y. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i c\u00f9ng nhau tr\u00ean h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap v\u1ee3 t\u00f4i s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng d\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n quan tr\u1ecdng \u1ea5y. \u0110\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i t\u1ea1o ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn, v\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn ch\u1edf ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111i qua m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi k\u00ec m\u1edbi, giai \u0111o\u1ea1n m\u1edbi trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n khi t\u00f4i c\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea1o.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, Anita v\u00e0 t\u00f4i b\u1ea5y gi\u1edd ch\u1ecbu nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1eefng ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n, ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch, hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin sai l\u1ea1c, tin \u0111\u1ed3n \u00e1c c\u1ea3m. Sau c\u00f9ng, t\u00f4i r\u1eddi b\u1ecf s\u1ee9 v\u1ee5 m\u1ee5c s\u01b0 \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i trong Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i C\u1ea3i C\u00e1ch. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u00e1n th\u00e0nh con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn v\u00e0 \u0111ang \u0111i. Anita v\u00e0 t\u00f4i b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ra ti\u1ebfng v\u00e0o \u1ea5y (h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ed3n ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111ang li d\u1ecb, hay t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7m l\u1ed7i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3) b\u1edfi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1edbi nhau m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n trong h\u01a1n hai m\u01b0\u01a1i n\u0103m h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3 qua. B\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi nhau nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, \u00fd ngh\u0129 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac ch\u00fang t\u00f4i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n t\u00e2m t\u00ecnh l\u00e2u gi\u1edd, cho n\u00ean Anita kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u201cs\u1ed1c\u201d khi t\u00f4i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh chuy\u1ec3n ti\u1ebfp, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng lo ng\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi nhau.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e0ng kh\u00e1c, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i t\u00f4i qua th\u1eddi gian nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m th\u00e1ng, chuy\u1ec3n bi\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y x\u00e1o tr\u1ed9n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang h\u01a1n \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd suy ngh\u0129 tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i, v\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn. V\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn th\u00ec d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn hi v\u1ecdng. V\u00e0 hi v\u1ecdng s\u1ebd th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n qua nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed5i thay v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u00e0m ph\u00e1t sinh hoa tr\u00e1i.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa s\u1ef1 ch\u00edn mu\u1ed3i c\u00f9ng nhau v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n ri\u00eang r\u1ebd.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, trong v\u0103n h\u00f3a \u2013 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ng\u00e0y nay ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta k\u1ebft h\u00f4n l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean kh\u00e1 tr\u1ec5 h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y. Trung b\u00ecnh, nam k\u1ebft h\u00f4n l\u00fac kho\u1ea3ng ba m\u01b0\u01a1i tu\u1ed5i hay h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 n\u1eef hai m\u01b0\u01a1i b\u1ea3y ho\u1eb7c hai m\u01b0\u01a1i t\u00e1m. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn ki\u00ean quy\u1ebft l\u1ed9i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f2ng tr\u00e0o l\u01b0u n\u00e0y. Theo t\u00f4i, khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n s\u1edbm h\u01a1n (kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u1edf tu\u1ed5i \u0111ang l\u1edbn \u2013 tu\u1ed5i teen \u2013 m\u00e0 l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3ng gi\u1eefa hai m\u01b0\u01a1i v\u00e0 ba m\u01b0\u01a1i tu\u1ed5i), b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u00edt c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen v\u00e0 k\u0129 n\u0103ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0103n s\u00e2u. B\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. Khi \u1ea5y b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1edfi m\u1edf h\u01a1n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i. M\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n th\u00ec t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

K\u1ebft h\u00f4n s\u1edbm h\u01a1n s\u1ebd gi\u00fap hai b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng nhau tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng b\u00ed quy\u1ebft c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a ngh\u0129a t\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng h\u1eefu v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch. Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh d\u1ea7n c\u00f9ng nhau nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n s\u1ebd cho b\u1ea1n nhi\u1ec1u kinh nghi\u1ec7m h\u01a1n l\u00e0m c\u01a1 s\u1edf cho quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd cho ph\u00e9p c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nhau s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc nhi\u1ec1u m\u1eabu th\u1ee9c kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u00fac n\u00ean trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, n\u1ebfu k\u1ebft h\u00f4n s\u1edbm h\u01a1n c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng nhau thay \u0111\u1ed5i qua c\u00e1c giai \u0111o\u1ea1n c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, b\u1edfi v\u00ec c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i c\u00f9ng \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i d\u1ecdc d\u00e0i h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. M\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 quan s\u00e1t tinh t\u1ebf s\u1ebd so s\u00e1nh s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n n\u00e0y v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u doanh nghi\u1ec7p trong \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ec1u m\u1edbi m\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t doanh nghi\u1ec7p, trong \u0111\u00f3 hai th\u1ef1c th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e2u n\u0103m h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi nhau c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi l\u1ecbch s\u1eed, t\u1eadp t\u1ee5c, v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i b\u00ean. K\u1ebft h\u00f4n tr\u1ec5 tr\u00e0ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 khi ta d\u00f9ng c\u00e1i b\u00faa kh\u00ed \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec3 khoan b\u00ea-t\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, khi b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00edch nghi v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 hai v\u1ed1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng t\u1eadp qu\u00e1n, h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 t\u00edn ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0103n s\u00e2u.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Khi t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ecdc tin v\u1ec1 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng Rocchio m\u1eebng l\u1ec5 k\u1ec9 ni\u1ec7m t\u00e1m m\u01b0\u01a1i hai n\u0103m h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i, n\u00f3 l\u00e0m t\u00f4i nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng tham d\u1ef1 m\u1ed9t l\u1ec5 k\u1ec9 ni\u1ec7m b\u1ea3y m\u01b0\u01a1i n\u0103m h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i kh\u00e1c. T\u1ea1i bu\u1ed5i l\u1ec5 ti\u1ebfp t\u00e2n, t\u00f4i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n gi\u00e0 \u1ea5y v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 b\u00ed quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e2u n\u0103m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. B\u00e0 v\u1ee3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: \u201cKh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t ai trong hai ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ch\u1ebft c\u1ea3\u201d.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u00e0 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00fang. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n b\u1ec1n l\u00e2u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ed1ng th\u1ecd l\u00e2u n\u0103m. S\u1ed1ng l\u00e2u l\u00ean l\u00e3o l\u00e0ng. B\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap cho \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng n\u00e0y s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n h\u1ecd b\u1ec1n l\u00e2u su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u00e1nh T\u00ear\u00eaxa Avila n\u00f3i r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00fang: Ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn ho\u00e0n t\u1ea5t m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1, nh\u1edd b\u00ed quy\u1ebft tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c v\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3: Dr. Allen Hunt<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Chuy\u1ec3n ng\u1eef: Louis Tu\u1ea5n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Tr\u00edch t\u1eeb: \u201cThe 21 Undeniable Secrets of Marriage\u201d<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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Chia s\u1ebb th\u00e1ng 1- 2022<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y phi\u1ec1n to\u00e1i khi v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u1edf v\u1edbi nhau, th\u00ec h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e2m v\u00f2ng nguy hi\u1ec3m<\/b><\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span>.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

G\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n t\u01b0 c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng Hoa K\u1ef3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ng\u1ee7 chung gi\u01b0\u1eddng. C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u00e0 d\u00e2n d\u1ee5ng cho c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u00e1o c\u00e1o ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng t\u0103ng con s\u1ed1 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf m\u1ed9t d\u00e3y c\u00e1c ph\u00f2ng ng\u1ee7 ch\u00ednh ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 h\u1ecd d\u1ef1 ki\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n chung c\u1ee7a thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf c\u00e1c c\u0103n nh\u00e0 m\u1edbi. \u0110\u00f4i khi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00ec l\u00ed do s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe nh\u01b0: b\u1ecb r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7, ti\u1ebfng ng\u00e1y, ho\u1eb7c h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng ch\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng y\u00ean (khi ng\u1ee7). C\u00f3 khi v\u00ec l\u00ed do kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc kh\u00e1c gi\u00fap h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f2n. Nh\u01b0 di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean h\u00e0i k\u1ecbch Rodney Dangerfield hay n\u00f3i: \u201cV\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ng\u1ee7 trong ph\u00f2ng ri\u00eang m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111i ngh\u1ec9 theo ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh ri\u00eang. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng t\u00e0i kho\u1ea3n ng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng ri\u00eang. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111ang c\u1ed1 l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1eef cho h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n n\u00e0y ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i\u201d.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

B\u00ed quy\u1ebft chi\u1ebfc gi\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed1i ngh\u1ecbch v\u1edbi d\u00f2ng s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n n\u00e0y. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u00f4i khi v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ee7 ri\u00eang. C\u0169ng th\u1ebf, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn t\u1ed1i \u01b0u. Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng ta mong mu\u1ed1n. OK kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t. B\u00ed quy\u1ebft chi\u1ebfc gi\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u1ee7 quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n ch\u00fang ta t\u01b0\u1edfng. V\u00e0, n\u00f3i cho ngay, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m s\u00e2u xa.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i th\u00f4i th\u00ec kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 tri\u1ec3n n\u1edf phong nhi\u00eau. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u1ecdc quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y l\u00e0 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nam c\u00f3 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh cho nhau, v\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n th\u00ec n\u1ed1i k\u1ebft hai con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nhau th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c th\u1ec3 duy nh\u1ea5t su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n t\u1ea1o l\u1eadp d\u00e2y li\u00ean k\u1ebft \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p \u0111\u01a1n nh\u1ea5t. Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n theo m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 kh\u00e1c, b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t s\u1ee3i d\u00e2y li\u00ean k\u1ebft huy\u1ec1n nhi\u1ec7m, n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0m cho s\u1ee3i d\u00e2y li\u00ean k\u1ebft huy\u1ec1n nhi\u1ec7m \u1ea5y mang l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t x\u00e1c th\u1ec3 h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng chi\u1ebfc gi\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ea9n. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 sex \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. \u0110\u00fang h\u01a1n, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 b\u00ed quy\u1ebft n\u00e0y n\u1eb1m \u1edf s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng. V\u00e0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m nh\u01b0 ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p phu th\u00ea.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

D\u1eabu sao, khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 n\u00ean m\u1ed9t, c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t khi chia s\u1ebb chung gi\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u1ee7. L\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f2n s\u00e2u xa h\u01a1n s\u1ef1 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i x\u00e1c th\u1ecbt. Th\u1ee7 th\u1ec9 t\u00e2m t\u01b0, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o, vu\u1ed1t ve \u00e2u y\u1ebfm, \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f2n gi\u00e0nh gi\u1eadt ch\u0103n g\u1ed1i, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra. S\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 \u0111i v\u00e0o th\u00e2m s\u00e2u v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 l\u1edbn d\u1ea7n theo m\u1ed7i bu\u1ed5i chi\u1ec1u h\u00f4m, ng\u00e0y l\u1ea1i ng\u00e0y, tu\u1ea7n qua tu\u1ea7n, sau nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e1ng n\u0103m \u1edf c\u00f9ng nhau.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

G\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111i th\u0103m m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u0169, Jill, trong \u00edt ng\u00e0y. Ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y b\u00e2y gi\u1edd s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng g\u1eb7p nhau m\u1ea5y n\u0103m nay. Ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y b\u1ecb y\u1ebfu \u0111i nhi\u1ec1u v\u00ec m\u1ed9t c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh m\u1ea1n t\u00ednh nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m nay. Nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ng sau c\u00f9ng n\u00e0y, anh ph\u1ea3i chuy\u1ec3n v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t trung t\u00e2m \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c li\u00ean t\u1ee5c. M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, Jill ng\u1ed3i b\u00ean anh trong c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng b\u1ec7nh h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y, h\u1ecfi th\u0103m n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n khi anh th\u1ee9c, ch\u1ecb \u0111an \u00e1o khi anh ng\u1ee7.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Trong l\u00fac ch\u00fang t\u00f4i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nhau, t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi Jill v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n ch\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c ch\u1ed3ng trong t\u1eebng \u1ea5y n\u0103m, th\u1ebf c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ecdng l\u1ea1i n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt nh\u1ea5t qua vi\u1ec7c r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 ch\u1ecb ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 ch\u1ed3ng khi anh \u1ea5y qua \u0111\u1eddi. Ch\u1ecb tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi, \u201cAnh \u1ea5y bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh s\u1eafp ch\u1ebft trong ng\u00e0y cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng. T\u00f4i ng\u1ed3i v\u1edbi anh trong c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng v\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i h\u1ed3i t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng k\u1ec9 ni\u1ec7m trong n\u0103m m\u01b0\u01a1i n\u0103m h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i. Anh nh\u00ecn t\u00f4i v\u00e0 xin t\u00f4i, \u2018Em y\u00eau, em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00edch l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n n\u1eb1m b\u00ean anh \u0111\u00e2y \u00edt ph\u00fat \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng?\u2019 Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 t\u00f4i leo t\u1ecdt l\u00ean chi\u1ebfc gi\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u01b0\u1ee1ng n\u1eb1m k\u1ec1 b\u00ean anh \u1ea5y, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u00f4m nhau m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed1c l\u00e1t.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cCh\u00fang t\u00f4i nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i chi\u1ebfc gi\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc gi\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f4i. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u01b0\u1eddi vui v\u00e0 nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i chi\u1ebfc gi\u01b0\u1eddng b\u00e9 t\u00ed \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y xa x\u01b0a \u0111\u00f3. T\u00f4i r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi chi\u1ebfc gi\u01b0\u1eddng vi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 chi\u1ec1u t\u1ed1i h\u00f4m \u1ea5y.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e0o kho\u1ea3ng hai gi\u1edd s\u00e1ng vi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u01b0\u1ee1ng g\u1ecdi t\u00f4i b\u00e1o tin \u00f4ng l\u00ean c\u01a1n \u0111au tim v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 ra \u0111i. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh s\u1eafp ra \u0111i, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao \u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang t\u00f4i n\u1eb1m k\u1ec1 b\u00ean nhau tr\u00ean chi\u1ebfc gi\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng. Ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb s\u1ef1 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i cho nhau\u201d.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

K\u00ed \u1ee9c tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi c\u1ee7a Jill khu\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t s\u00e2u v\u1ec1 ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 v\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n k\u00e9o d\u00e0i su\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi v\u1edbi bao th\u0103ng tr\u1ea7m nh\u01b0ng b\u00e9n r\u1ec5 s\u00e2u trong m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng d\u00e0nh cho nhau v\u00e0 cho Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Kinh nghi\u1ec7m sau c\u00f9ng c\u1ea3 hai anh ch\u1ecb c\u00f9ng chia s\u1ebb, c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, to\u00e1t l\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a c\u00e2u Th\u01b0 H\u00edpri 13,4: \u00abAi n\u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, ch\u1edb l\u00e0m cho loan ph\u00f2ng ra \u00f4 u\u1ebf \u2026\u00bb.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n n\u00e0y k\u1ebft th\u00fac t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang ta, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i, m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc th\u1eadt hay bi\u1ebft th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 chung th\u1ee7y, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 m\u00f4 t\u1ea3. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 huy\u1ec1n nhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 th\u00e1nh thi\u00eang n\u01a1i chi\u1ebfc gi\u01b0\u1eddng chung \u1ea5y, n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3 di\u1ec5n ra c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t ri\u00eang t\u01b0 nh\u01b0 gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7, h\u01a1i th\u1edf kh\u00f2 kh\u00e8, v\u00e0 v\u00e2ng, c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169ng \u1edf \u0111\u00f3.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Anita v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eafm m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc gi\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u1ee7 k\u00edch c\u1ee1 to h\u01a1n gi\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f4i m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0i n\u0103m. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng chi\u1ebfc gi\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f4i trong hai m\u01b0\u01a1i n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. T\u00f4i th\u00edch chi\u1ebfc gi\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f4i \u0111\u00f3. T\u00f4i vui th\u00edch nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n ch\u00fang t\u00f4i gi\u1ee1n c\u1ee3t \u0111\u00e1nh nhau tr\u00ean chi\u1ebfc gi\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i th\u1ecdt c\u00f9i ch\u1ecf \u1edf ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0y, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u g\u1ed1i ch\u1ed7 kia, hai c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 t\u01a1i t\u1ea3 qu\u1ea5n l\u1ea5y nhau. S\u1ef1 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, c\u00e1i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ta v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 l\u1edbn l\u00ean m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c. T\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i k\u00ec l\u1ea1 v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 t\u00f4i, h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp h\u00f3a th\u00e2n th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi n\u00e0ng. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c chung gi\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f2n gi\u00fap h\u00f3a gi\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng xung \u0111\u1ed9t. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 t\u00ednh hay h\u1eddn d\u1ed7i. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t, Anita ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m c\u1ed1 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf th\u00f3i h\u01b0 \u1ea5y. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y th\u00edch h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i v\u00e0 h\u00f3a gi\u1ea3i m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111i ng\u1ee7. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y lu\u00f4n nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf t\u00f4i, \u201cch\u1edb \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi l\u1eb7n m\u00e0 c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn v\u1eabn c\u00f2n. Ch\u1edb \u0111\u1ec3 ma qu\u1ef7 th\u1eeba c\u01a1 l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng\u201d (Ep 4,26-27). Vi\u1ec7c chung gi\u01b0\u1eddng bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1. T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129, hay c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n v\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u1eb1m ngay k\u1ec1 b\u00ean n\u00e0ng. Chi\u1ebfc gi\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng cho t\u00f4i ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a kh\u00e1c.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00ednh y\u1ebfu cho nh\u00e9. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n ri\u00eang t\u01b0 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa, c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian h\u01a1n n\u1eefa cho b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng gian c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n ri\u00eang t\u01b0 h\u01a1n n\u1eefa cho m\u00ecnh, trong k\u00ec ngh\u1ec9 l\u1ec5 hay ngh\u1ec9 h\u00e8, c\u00f3 ph\u00f2ng ng\u1ee7 ri\u00eang, th\u00ec h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111ang \u0111i sai \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y phi\u1ec1n h\u00e0 khi v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u1edf c\u00f9ng nhau, th\u00ec h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111ang l\u00e2m v\u00f2ng nguy hi\u1ec3m. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng d\u00f9ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u bia hay thu\u1ed1c g\u00e2y nghi\u1ec7n l\u00e0m t\u00ea d\u1ea1i, \u0111\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u b\u00e1o \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng \u1ed5n, v\u00ec anh ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n vui th\u00edch \u1edf b\u00ean v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n. Anh ta \u0111ang s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c ch\u1ea5t k\u00edch th\u00edch \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n chung gi\u01b0\u1eddng th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u b\u00e1o anh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n vui th\u00fa g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi nhau n\u1eefa.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Khi d\u00e2y li\u00ean k\u1ebft h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ecb x\u00f3i m\u00f2n, nh\u1eefng t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u c\u1edd \u0111\u1ecf l\u1ea7n h\u1ed3i ph\u1ea5t l\u00ean c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o. Nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t, nh\u01b0 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ng\u1ee7 chung gi\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1edbi nhau n\u1eefa, th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u00e1o hi\u1ec7u nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u1edf t\u1ea7ng s\u00e2u h\u01a1n. \u0110ang c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 r\u1ea1n n\u1ee9t s\u00e2u xa n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u01a1 h\u1ed3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt suy gi\u1ea3m. Khi s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m tin b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n th\u1ea5y th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n hay tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i khi \u1edf b\u00ean nhau n\u1eefa.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f3 th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng \u201cvi tr\u00f9ng\u201d m\u1ea7m b\u1ec7nh l\u1ebbn v\u00e0o trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Xin h\u00e3y nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i b\u00ed quy\u1ebft g\u1ea7n g\u0169i qua nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf. Khi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00e1i ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng d\u00e0nh cho nhau nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n h\u1eb3n nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00e1i t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u sinh t\u1eed c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n s\u1ebd l\u00f3e l\u00ean b\u00e1o \u0111\u1ed9ng cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3, d\u00f9 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y hay kh\u00f4ng. D\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u b\u00e1o \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00e1c th\u00f3i quen truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t thi\u1ebfu t\u00ednh x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng (b\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u01b0\u1ee1i ng\u1ef1a trong s\u00e1ch Kh\u1ea3i huy\u1ec1n 6,1-8): ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch, khinh b\u1ec9, ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n, v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 v\u1ec7. Khi nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean th\u00e0nh nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ec7 th\u01b0\u1eddng, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u00e0ng mau \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ed3i khai t\u1eed. \u0110\u00f4i b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ed1n con ng\u1ef1a-ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111ang h\u1ee7y ho\u1ea1i \u1edf t\u1ea7ng s\u00e2u c\u1ee7a ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt, v\u1ed1n thu\u1ed9c n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 v\u1ec7 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ban \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng s\u00e2u xa c\u00f3 t\u00ednh quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh. Th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng \u0111\u00fang cho b\u00ed quy\u1ebft chi\u1ebfc gi\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u1ee7. Ch\u1ecdn ng\u1ee7 gi\u01b0\u1eddng ri\u00eang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n nh\u1ecf v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00fac n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 li th\u00e2n s\u00e2u h\u01a1n \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n d\u1ea7n trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

B\u00ed quy\u1ebft chi\u1ebfc gi\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u1ee7 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u0169ng th\u1ebf. C\u00e1c b\u00ed t\u00edch c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m, nh\u01b0ng Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed7i l\u00fac theo m\u1ed9t th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9c. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 c\u1ed9i ngu\u1ed3n M\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m. V\u00e0 Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng ch\u00fang ta cho s\u1ed1ng trong t\u00ecnh th\u00e2n m\u1eadt \u2013 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt v\u1edbi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa qua d\u1ea5u ch\u1ec9 b\u00ed t\u00edch, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt thi\u00eang li\u00eang m\u00e0 chi\u1ebfc gi\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ea9n trao cho \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng theo c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3: Dr. Allen Hunt<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Chuy\u1ec3n ng\u1eef: Louis Tu\u1ea5n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Tr\u00edch t\u1eeb: \u201cThe 21 Undeniable Secrets of Marriage\u201d<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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